Re: SPOUSAL Sponsorship PAKISTAN @ London Visa Office
Hi,
I am a male, Pakistani resident, currently working in Dubai. I had my nikah done last year in September. It was a proper ceremony in a banquet hall with both our families and close relatives (roughly about 100 people attended). Next day we had photoshoot and dinner with both families. At that time, I was working in Pakistan. My wife and I traveled locally with our families. She returned to Canada after three weeks.
Our immigration application was delayed a bit, as I got a job in Dubai and visa processing started happening there. So we applied this April, stating that rukhsati and walima took place as well. The application was forwarded to London office in July.
This summer (in July), we had our proper wedding - mehndi, baraat and walima. All events were grand however for the purpose of the application, since we had already shown rukhsati to have taken place, we did not update immigration office.
My wife came with me to Dubai and stayed for two months. This was also our honeymoon. She is back in Canada now and we got the good news that she is expecting. We were waiting to update immigration after she receives her blood test and ultrasound reports. In the meantime, I got an email from London office, saying that they are doubtful about our relationship being genuine. They gave three reasons for their concerns:
a) they are not sure if rukhsati has taken place. The photos we took in Pakistan after our nikah were not convincing for them
b) they are questioning the number of people who attended the nikah. They are saying it is Pakistani norm to have big weddings whereas in our photos, only close family were shown
c) they raised a concern that my wife is two years older than me and that is not the norm in Pakistan. So they think this whole marriage was for me to get Canadian immigration.
They have asked for additional info to address their concerns and to re-submit the background form.
I am just perplexed at how they could be calling the marriage in question. My wife and I are not related. There is no benefit to her in calling me to Canada if the relationship were not genuine. We met in her sister's wedding two years ago and talks started via whatsapp and skype. Finally last year, both families decided to do our baat pakki (she was not present at the ceremony as she could not come due to work but her mother visited and we did a small rasm at home). We then had a proper nikah (not just a simple one in a mosque) and in our application, we sent them countless chats, skype call records and emails to show that we talked daily and knew each other well.
Please guide me on a proper response. At this point, I can send them our dubai photos and pregnancy test results. But should I send them photos from our wedding? I am concerned that if we disclose the July wedding, they will think we lied to them in our application that rukhsati and walima had taken place at the time of nikah.
At the same time, I am also angry that they are questioning the age difference. My wife and I met and chose each other. There was no pressure from anyone. And this is certainly not a sham marriage. We liked each other and we did nikah first so that we could apply early and hoped I would get my visa by the time of the wedding so that we wouldn't have to live apart, especially when starting a family.
Please let me know what you think.
Thank you.