Hello guys, I'm new here. Also this is my first post here!
I'd like a little advice, I'm getting through a very hard time with this immigration process...
Our story: My wife and I are from Bogotá. She got a PPR as part of her family (It was 5 years ago by Skilled Worker program) and we've been together since several years ago (not living together, I mean). She went to live in Toronto with her parents in December 2014 so we thought about the possibility of a sponsorship (Family Class) in the future.
Now, in April 2015 she went back to Bogotá to graduate from her college and we decided to get married. The problem is that she was having obligations (from work) to resolve so the flight to Canada was programmed sooner than our possible ceremony date (the Notaría fooled us lying about the business days running because there was a "festivo"/public holiday in between, so got everything postponed). We decided then to celebrate before the ceremony and do it by proxy with a friend of us. That ceremony was held on April 7th (so she was in Canada then).
When we were researching before sending any application, we found really bad news: The Operational Bulletin 613 (that makes this kind of wedding ceremony unlegitimate without -real- exemptions). Our process got blocked instantly before sending anything.
Later on, I sent a TRV application out of despair (with her invitation letter and every proof and document we could). I've got it rejected because of my ties. So, in the eyes of Canada's immigration authorities I can't visit my wife because she's actually my wife BUT if I want to apply for sponsorship, my marriage isn't valid. Curious isn't it?
Now the good part: I started freelancing with a Toronto-based business from a year ago and my client is considering the possibility to build a new business/shop having me as a contractor. The good news is my work (as a designer) is admitted by the Canada-Colombia FTA so there's not LMIA needed to work temporarily.
We (my wife and I) are very, very tired. We've been traveling and having a good time together but getting her return to Bogotá because of our problematic immigration case would be a big bummer also for her current situation. Nowadays we have three 'real' options:
- Me getting a Work Permit if my client helps me out.
- She getting back here and (a) living together 1yr for Common-Law status or (b) filing a divorce and re-marrying (plain ridiculous).
- Giving up.
I write this post from Bogotá, if anyone wants to meet up.
That's all.
Thank you for reading and for your help.
C