Had my ADR today and the outcome was not positive!!! more waiting for us...its real hard to know that we still have to wait... after already being apart for almost two years already..in our case what was recommended to withdraw the case and me go live with hubby for a year then reapply..also get a DNA for our daughter that is just over two months old..apart from doing as ceremony for our wedding and the birth of our mutual daughter...it's insane..
I just hope for the rest of you waiting..please try to have as much proof as possible..in our case my previous relationship was and is still a block....sometimes i just wish i wasn't so stupid for doing what i did in the past...this is what is messing up with my happiness now...and to make matters worse i can't leave Canada to be with my hubby with my first daughter of previous relationship all cuz her father wont get me the permission to do so...so now i have to spend a lot more money to hire a lawyer to argue my spousal case now...all i am living for right now is to be paying laywers...i just finished paying my lawyer to get the full custody of my first daughter which took two years to get...oh man ..i am tired....and now when the happiness has come into my life for real we are put on a test ...isn't two years long enough???? another two years to wait until my hubby can "possibly" come to Canada on a PR.
Anyways..continued success to those who wait...i hope you all get good results soon..
I just hope for the rest of you waiting..please try to have as much proof as possible..in our case my previous relationship was and is still a block....sometimes i just wish i wasn't so stupid for doing what i did in the past...this is what is messing up with my happiness now...and to make matters worse i can't leave Canada to be with my hubby with my first daughter of previous relationship all cuz her father wont get me the permission to do so...so now i have to spend a lot more money to hire a lawyer to argue my spousal case now...all i am living for right now is to be paying laywers...i just finished paying my lawyer to get the full custody of my first daughter which took two years to get...oh man ..i am tired....and now when the happiness has come into my life for real we are put on a test ...isn't two years long enough???? another two years to wait until my hubby can "possibly" come to Canada on a PR.
Anyways..continued success to those who wait...i hope you all get good results soon..