ddobro2 said:
Merry X-mas, hayati. Habibti, I'm really sad to hear that the notes seem to have a lot of unflattering things to say about your relationship. I don't know if you want to share the specifics here or maybe leave that for your lawyer, but it's not insurmountable. CIC likes to say that "on the balance of probability," they are "not satisfied" that your relationship is genuine. Well, that pretty much means they made a judgment call, and your job is to prove that they misjudged. Best of luck and try not to let it get you down. Your husband is in Morocco instead of these other countries like Syria, for example. I would be a mess if my husband was in harm's way like is the case with some of these people whose files are at Damascus. I'm just so proud that Moroccans don't treat their citizens like that. Anyway, best wishes to you for peace and joy this season.
Thank you ddobro for your concerns. I will share with you what the VO wrote. My motivation is NOT about being an exhibitionnist lol I do it because I have the firm conviction it might help someone some day. I called my husband RIGHT AFTER the interview on September 12, so I know what were the questions and what were his answers. The notes taken by the VO do NOT match with his answers and I am at a loss!
She asked him why I became Bahai and when was that. He said he did not know. This I believe is true as I don't recall talking to him about this.
He asked her why he loves me. He said because I am understanding, sweet and I don't smoke!!! LOL How ridiculous is that! What he said was that his religion and my religion have similarities, that is no alcohol no smoking. The VO mixed everything up!
The VO asked him to give her examples of situations in which his wife has demonstrated that she is understanding and he said NO. ????
She asked him if there are other reasons why he loves his wife. He said we like the same things. So she asked him what and he said "euhhhhhh". ???
She asked her question again but in different ways and he did not respond. ??? That is not true! He said he gave her answers!
She asked him what are his wife's flaws. He said none. She does not believe that as nobody is perfect.
She asked him something about age difference. He said he does not see or feel any differences between us. She told him how surprising is that since we are at different periods of our life and we don't have the same life experiences. She said my husband did not reply.
My husband told her he loves me and that everybody thinks he is using me to immigrate to Canada, but it is not the case he said. My husband told the VO he loves my spirit, that we share a spiritual bond together and he feels he is in Paradise with me.
The VO asked him questions about me, my work, my leisure activities, my interests, my likes, my dislikes, my friends, my son, why not have a big wedding party in the traditions of Moroccans to have a big party. He did not answer. IT IS NOT TRUE!!! He answered them all! I remember his answers!
The VO asked him questions about his future plans with his wife and he said they do not speak of it, but would really like to have children, it is important to him. The VO pointed out that this could be very difficult for us because of the advanced age of guarantor. THAT IS NOT TRUE!!!! Many times we speak of our future plans, we just did that in 3 years! He told her he wanted to work hard to help me pay off my debts and build a little house 2 floors on the land I purchased a couple of years ago! How can she lie like this! As for the children it is not true! He told her he never wanted to have any and he added that even if he was with a woman his age and having children with her, he would have another sort of challenges with this woman. He chose to be with me and have this challenge with me (not to have children) but at least he knows he is happy with me. He could be with another woman and have children but not have this happiness with her like he has with me. The VO asked him if we talked about this issue (children) and he said no. That is NOT true. We talked about this issue several times!!! How can she lie like this!
Here are the end of the notes:
Req provides a contact proofs and photos given that the applicant and the respondents do not share the same culture, do not share the same religion and have different life experiences, given the fact that applicant and respondents have a difference age is significantly incompatible with the customs and traditions of Morocco, given the fact that the applicant has a precarious socio-professional situation in Morocco, has no job and stable income, and immigration to Canada he would improve its financial situation and professional interview seems necessary to evaluate the good faith of the relationship.
