Jesus this is terrifying. 54% ?!?!?!?!mirjahan said:21 months and 54% spouse approval from Singapore VO :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
21 months starting when? When my application is filed? When it is received in Singapore? When they start processing?
I'm really scared that my wife and stepson will be rejected, despite us being absolutely genuine. We sent lots of good photos of us and her son and a fair number of emails, but we don't have things like shared accounts, telephone records, bank records showing money sent... we live together and I take money from my Canadian bank account via ATM once every few weeks. Everything in Thailand is in her name.
To make it worse for us, a number of things:
-she was a bar girl when I met her (I was never her customer but I doubt visa office cares).
-I have already been married and divorced once in Canada.
-we have been together only 2-3 years and applied for visa immediately after being married.
-we didn't have a big wedding ceremony as my family is unable to travel and we aren't too close with her parents so we plan to have a ceremony in Canada. We did have a little party with our friends and took photos.
-The majority of the money I saved up before coming to Thailand was made by playing poker... perfectly fair, but not really provable. It would be reasonable for the visa officers to suspect that I do something shady like deal drugs, pimp hookers, or who knows what.
-she has only a high school education, no job, would be dirt poor without a man to support her. That counted against us when we tried to visit Canada for Christmas one year.
Since we applied for immigration, we have had a daughter (now 6 months old... to think that I hoped we would be in Canada before she was born). The four of us live together (with my wife's sister and nephew as well) and in every possible way are a genuine family. I'm the only father her son has ever known. Our landlord and all the staff/many of the parents at my son's school can confirm that our relationship is genuine. We have many more photos from the time since we applied.
I'd like to get together more photos of our family, and collect statements (or something?) from the staff at my son's school, verifying that we are a real family, and send them to Singapore as further proof of our relationship. Can that be done? What's the correct procedure? Does anyone have any ideas that could be helpful?