buonqua said:
Big congrats. I was curious if your situation was similar to mines living with wife and having a baby together so I checked out your profile. Says you joined 2012 and did a family sponsorship or is that someone else?
Do you mind sharing a bit about your situation just so we have an idea what Singapore VO is looking for. Things like did you live with your wife before and during the sponsorship application process, how long you've known each other before getting married and if you have any kids together.
No. In 2012 I came here in Canada as dependent child with my Parents.
This time around I am sponsoring my wife.
I saw quite a few Singapore applicants are in interview queue. I thought they will put my wife in interview as well. Here is my situation -
- We didn't know each other for a long time before our marriage. Our marriage is arranged marriage.
- I landed in BD in middle of January, first meeting was after 4/5 days of landing. Got married on 1st week of Feb. I came back at end of Feb
- 9 years of age difference.
- I think anyone except South Asian wouldn't believe that 2 persons can decide to marry just knowing for 2 weeks. I thought this would be a
RED FLAG.
- Further we only stayed together for around 3 weeks.
I submitted following as proof of relationship.
- Both Marriage Certificate & Marriage Deeds
- Photos: Engagement, Wedding, Reception, Honeymoon, Photos together with family member
- Phone bills showing number dialed, Whatsapp Chats (export), Whatsapp call logs (screenshot), Facebook profile link, email etc.
- Money exchange receipt (sent money)
- Honeymoon trip - Hotel Receipt
- Airline Ticket, Boarding pass
- My parents also visited to attend my marriage. Included tickets.
I see in this forum that people submit lots of stuff as proof of their long-lasting relationship. Compared to them I provided nothing
I was bit worried as our relationship profile is very short in terms of duration.
I think that particular officer was mainly focusing on whether marriage was genuine or not.
I don't know how but he/she was convinced that marriage is genuine. He didn't look into for how long our relationship is and how we are continuing.
Again every officer has different perspective. If my case was looked by a different officer it could have been something different