Tina dhaliwal said:
Hi thanks for rplying all
My visa office is Chandigarh pb India..
i want to discuss the reasons of divorce of my previous marrige..
His behavior was totally changed after coming to Canada...i felt him more close to the his sister with whom we were living at that time..
He stopped supporting me in all ways..send me to work in the factory..it was very hard for me to do the labor...as i was teacher back home..
I was not comfortable with his sister and the joint family we were living in at that time i asked him to move some where else , he totally refused..
He had his sister in Canada..before coming to Canada he was very nice to me and promised me that he will try his best to help me get my brother to Canada
We were in Ontario at that time...facing financial hardships and i was feeling so upset as he totally refused to get any of my parent's family member to Canada..
Starting abusing me...bacme alochoic..i was going through a hell at that time..
At work some one told me in Canada there are some developing provinces who have better job opportunities and u can sponsor your family too
i requested him to move ... he refused.. i moved by self to Saskatchewan..waited for him there but he stopped taking my phone calls ..no communication..he was so offended that he phoned my parents say that i m not loyal to him any more.. i moved to some other place with some one
else ...my life was totally hell..he send me divorce papers and our marriage finished...there was not love ,no trust left in our marriage..
here girl plzzz be calm
i was also refused for the same situation of the reason the cic said to you. that was, they asked my previous divorce papers and i sent them. after that they refused me and said that i have not come to a clear divorce from the previous marriage so, according to that my current marriage is not genuine. but i called the cic and asked that why they refused me though i have already sent the documents. then they asked me to send again the same document which i said that i sent ( the divorce paper). then again they said that my refusal is there and i have sent the wrong document. then my husband appealed and the IAD asked the written detailed explanation letter rather than the presentation physically. then before we sent the explanation letter we went to our registrar office in courts and checked again whether our divorce paper is correct or not. unfortunately i have already sent not the final papers of our divorce and only the previous paper of it. so, then we explained what we have faced to our immigration purposes to the officers in the registrar office in courts, and asked them to help us to get it done immediately. then all of them did it very soon in two days (a big process) and made it for us. then we sent it to the IAD with the long detailed explanation letter. we approved. so, plzzzz dear dont worry, i'll give you a good suggestion, if you talk to your ex- husband, you call him and ask a copy of your divorce paper. because if the divorce got right for him, why it was not work with yours? so, i'm pretty sure you have left some of the papers of your divorce... and also see what are the rules for your husband's country about the certification of the documents the cic requested? so, please dont get stressed and keep a hope of your new life in canada?
i also was so stressed when i was refused i know how you feel now... so, i wish you a good luck.......
