I guess your right, I don't understand your frustration, and you clearly don't understand me. You can be rude all you want but it's not going to change your situation.colorblind said:Believe me, you don't understand my frustration. And the fact that you have uploaded some letters that no one asked you to, and you and the others are saying that if we are not polite, we might get treated differently is a BIG BS!!!
If you remember how to upload files and submit the application, there is room for only the docents they request and explanation letter. If you wrote 6 'professional' letters, that's your problem. We're not required to. And if any of the officwrs there think like you, then I'm better off Canada. As this is all BS.
The letters are my situation, but not my PROBLEM as you stated. As I said, each of the letters were required. The app would have been rejected (or rather unable to upload) without them as there we're that many categories that required letters. I never said YOU were required to write any letters. Everyone's application will vary. My application did require them and I used them as an opportunity.
I've shared my personal experience, others have shared theirs, and I've shared the thoughts of a respected immigration lawyer. You clearly have a different opinion and I'm not trying to change that. However you are misconstruing what myself and others are saying and I'll continue to explain myself so that others are not misled.
Here's where we can agree: It SHOULDN'T make a difference.
That being said, I don't know about you, but I don't live in a make believe land where everyone does what I think they should. I live in the real world where everyone is human, and are susceptible to emotion and to human error. I don't know where you are from but I have traveled to many places and have yet to come across anywhere that is any different. Humans are human.
For the same reasons, when I order a meal in a restaurant, I purposefully do not antagonize the server before my meal is served. If you know what I'm saying...
Please don't include me and my wife in your assumption that no one here has had a perfect life back home and that is why we're applying for permanent residence. Just because someone might be fleeing a bad situation doesn't mean everyone else is. There are many reasons to immigrate. One thing that we definitely did not include in our application was anything related to having a poor life outside of Canada.
I wish you luck in your future applications.
Well said! Thanks for sharing.AshesNdust said:I think what people are trying to say, is that in a situation with an application that allows for some leeway on the part of an agent, then being polite will help. For example, if a person submits a letter of employment from a past employer that is not exactly as it is supposed to be listed. Now at this point the agent can decide to reject it out right, accept it if they feel it is the best an applicant can get, or do some extra work to verify it.
If a person doesn't have a letter of explanation explaining why the letter isn't perfect, it might just get rejected. If they include a letter that is not polite, saying some like they think this requirement is too difficult or doesn't make sense, they might get rejected as well.
However, if a person, apologizes for not getting the letter exactly how it was asked for, explains that the former place of employment refused to follow the CIC instructions, and states that they can attempt to get more verification if needed, the agent might just decide that the letter is acceptable, they may call the former employer to verify, or just request some more documents.
That's the kind of situation that might be when an agent has some discretion and where a polite letter would be beneficial. I don't think anyone believes that writing a polite letter will allow an agent to pass an application that is completely missing information or outright violates the rules.