Anxiouswifey said:
I know I am starting to wonder why I haven't heard from them yet too...
Like maybe it's because we have kids or maybe it's because no one from Canada travelled for the wedding...
Or maybe we are being queued up for an interview.... maybe we didnt send enough evidence...
I try to figure out the ins and outs of this process...but it will literally drive you to drink....
But then I remember that this whole process has been inconsistent from day 1...
Don't fret too much sir... what's done is done... all you can do is sit back and wait... I wish this were an easy process but I am sure it will be worth it in the end...
In the end it will all be worth it. When you have your wife, you husband, you can safely go to bed, get up tomorrow, go to work. Do it again tomorrow, then the next day, and then the next...and then the next
You won't have to worry about how many days we have, how many days we have left, or in my cases how many hours I have to spend w her.
At the end you will get to hug up, kiss up, and enjoy life with your significant other and not worry about how long this will last, is Skype going to give me trouble to connect, will the ipad/tablet will die through out the night (mind you my wife and do this, we turn on Skype talk for a while, and fall asleep with it on).
In the end...you will get to hold hands, and not worry about time...because time will not be on the opposing team, it will be your your team.
In the end...we will be together...we are just begin hung out to dry and put to a test.
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You did your best, I did my best, whatever that is. It out of our hands now, we just have to wait it out.
I think every day did I do this right, or that right, was it enough. Every few weeks we end up in a fight...why did you wait to long to submit, why didn't you just submit after we got married. I want to live my life, I want to go on and live normal with my husband....
There are reasons we do this or do that...in the end it will be all worth it!
We knew what we were getting into (at least to an extent - even accepting that there were reg flags - we did sign the dotted line)
I don't think any of us will figure this out...we will probably come close...but be thrown back when dem mod'ass in'dem change up tactic.
In the end we just have to deal with time, and occupy this time in our lives until we no longer have to JUST occupy time...and begin to live our lives...
Does this make any sense?
Cheers Folks, It is Thursday...we made this week, one more till Friday, another time/week has past, and a new one begins next week.
Ryan
