herewecome said:You haven't played by the book as you have worked illegally.
Waiting 6+ months is not an emergency. There are many people on this forum who have waited over a year to live with their Canadian born husband or wife.
I apologise if I sound harsh but there are so many variables that are waiting to go wrong in your case and these have been pointed out with what seems like little consideration - declaring your relationship to CIC and working illegally.
You mention staying in Canada until she gets PR. Where will you be living after that?
OK..I apologise if I sound harsh as well, but I mean this affectionately....herewecome said:You haven't played by the book as you have worked illegally.
Did you not read what I wrote? We have played by the book since she came here since 2008...We have played by the book....Until 2012 when she had no other choice...No one is going to hire a woman who is three months pregnant..hell her employer she had been with for three years didn't want her anymore when she told them that she was...but..they still wanted her to work for them...FOR CASH.. And it''s been CASH every since then.
Her OWP expired while she was on maternity leave.
First, let's put this in perspective...She is not Canadian born, She is Filipino...only my son is Canadian. She wants to have her renewed OWP...She does not enjoy working for cash. I'm sure some people may, but she doesn't. She has not been able to get a legal job for over six months because of no OWP and immigration knows this because they mentioned it in a recent letter they sent...hence the "implied status" That's why we went to an mp to help move the process along, because she doesn't like working for cash. As far as other people waiting over a year to be with their spouses, I don't have that problem. I can come and visit her any time I like and I have been coming back and forth on weekends here since 2008. We are talking about work here. I'm here long term now because she needs help raising Jr. and personally I like being here to do that. We have our own apartment and we both have signed the lease. We also signed a year lease prior to this as well.herewecome said:"Waiting 6+ months is not an emergency. There are many people on this forum who have waited over a year to live with their Canadian born husband or wife."
Of course I will be staying here after that. I stated in my last post that we have roots here. We like to live here. Why would I want to leave after being with her all of this time and going through this whole process and... having a child born here to just leave...herewecome said:You mention staying in Canada until she gets PR. Where will you be living after that?
Well of course there are variables waiting to go wrong. I didn't plan for things to turn out this way nor do I want them to stay that way. A lot of variables will be resolved once she gets her renewed OWP. In terms of me considering these possibilities, We have to be careful about how we declare our relationship to immigration. If she puts me as an accompanying dependent, then the first thing out of immigrations mouth will be show proof of how she will support me. So until she gets her OWP, we will just play it safe. She will put me on her app as non-accompanying dependent. If we knew when her OWP is coming it would be a lot easier. We just want to avoid any questions about her employment as much as possible. It's a catch 22 for sure. As long as we are waiting for her OWP, she has to work this way. No choice.herewecome said:there are so many variables that are waiting to go wrong in your case and these have been pointed out with what seems like little consideration - declaring your relationship to CIC and working illegally.