what's up with this sikh guy..he has been rejecting applicants left and right....he should be fired...under what category did you apply? from your post, it is not clear you both married or not...if not married, you qualify under common law (if you can show that you both lived under one roof for a year with both of you having substantial evidence such as join bank accounts; lease under both names; insurance; will etc...) or conjugal (if you had not lived under one roof but support with other evidences)..NDVO has some traditional visa officers and it needs to change..one lady asked husband why he got married late and why his wife does not have a child when she has a child bearing age....and what's up with provide me more documentation then i will consider. What more documents he needs? trips, living together for 3 years not enough? it makes me mad that one moron sitting in a booth decides whether to grant a visa or not and it takes more than a year to tell me that...