I hear you my friend, I'm just as frustrated. I would advise you to go for MP inquiry, they say it takes 10 days but I have done it twice now and heard back from the MP within 3 days both times, so it is super quick. I believe that there are no red flags on my file either, we both have same education level, both belong to same caste, similar family backgrounds, age difference is only 4 years, every single person from both sides attended the marriage, it was a full out marriage with nothing held back, sent them more than 200 pictures, what's app chat history which was a couple hundred pages, phone bills. The inquiry does not delay the file, people on this forum have done them many many times and none of them faced any delay. Just go for the MP inquiry, and then you will get the notes soon after. We both are stuck in the same situation my friend, hope God has mercy on us and we hear some good news soon. . .