NEW DELHI - 2013 APPLICANTS.

[hash1]

exactly!! thats what we get asked by everyone we meet.


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All the members who live in same cities (either in India or in Canada) should become friends with each other and should hang out together. Atleast we would be able to stay away from those people who continuously asks us that “when r u going?” or “when is he/she coming here?”...........


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[Raasmi]

Hey all,

Hearing all your stories am getting very scared. Though ours is a love marriage, we are away since 1 year and We got married in May and I submitted his application today! If you all are waiting since Jan, how about us who have applied just now!! It's a night mare for me and so scary!

I am already pissed off being away from my husband and frustarted and quarelling every other day, with mom and everyone am loosing my patience.!

How long it might take from here to approve our application and how will they notify me?

Please any one let me know! and can anyone help where can I find the excel sheet where you all have put in your dates pleaseeee.

Thanks in advance!

 

[PC0827]

Hey all,

Hearing all your stories am getting very scared. Though ours is a love marriage, we are away since 1 year and We got married in May and I submitted his application today! If you all are waiting since Jan, how about us who have applied just now!! It's a night mare for me and so scary!

I am already pissed off being away from my husband and frustarted and quarelling every other day, with mom and everyone am loosing my patience.!

How long it might take from here to approve our application and how will they notify me?




Please any one let me know! and can anyone help where can I find the excel sheet where you all have put in your dates pleaseeee.

Thanks in advance!

I fully understand u! I also had a love marriage, and my parents still don't approve of our marriage. It really does get frustrating. I applied in nov.2012, was married in aug.2012. Me and my husband are also losing our patiences, my mom has done everything to stop our marriage, even emailing Jason Kenney abt my marriage being a fraud! Cuz of all this my husband will be getting interview as per my GCMS notes. I don't know how long that will be and what then outcome of the interview. We are stressed to the max!

 

[Gauti]

All the members who live in same cities (either in India or in Canada) should become friends with each other and should hang out together. Atleast we would be able to stay away from those people who continuously asks us that “when r u going?” or “when is he/she coming here?”...........

Anyone wants to meet me (i prefer females)

"hope my wife is not reading it.....!"

 

[RD.NewDelhi]

Very well said - there's nothing at all to b sad - cherish this bonus time you have got to spend with your/your in-laws family. Once v'll b there in Canada - life will get crazy busy - v'll definitely gonna miss this time thn.

Cheers!!





D[quote[/flash] author=Myrah7 link=topic=132103.msg2390885#msg2390885 date=1373050934]
guys pls cheer up don't be sad...I know its very difficult and all of us are goin thru this pain together....I haven't seen my husband in 4 months now..been married just 5 months..thx god hes coming down this month to see me for my bday .....pls one advice try meeting your partner as soon as possible don't keep too much of gap...the more u meet it helps to keep u happy and relationship stable...I know its not very easy to tk leave from work...and the tickets are exp too....but trust me love is greater than anything in this world......wishing for everyone to get good news very soon.....july is goin to be a good month ..so pls try being happy ;D the happiness u will get seeing DM u will forget all this frustating wait....god bless everyone... ;D
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[can_4visa]

I think its somehow easy to cope up with this situation for those who are staying with family. People staying alone gets more frustrated and worried because of lack of support, specially if somebody is staying out of his/her own country. So best thing is too keep yourself busy.

Very well said - there's nothing at all to b sad - cherish this bonus time you have got to spend with your/your in-laws family. Once v'll b there in Canada - life will get crazy busy - v'll definitely gonna miss this time thn.

Cheers!!





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[Myrah7]

All the members who live in same cities (either in India or in Canada) should become friends with each other and should hang out together. Atleast we would be able to stay away from those people who continuously asks us that “when r u going?” or “when is he/she coming here?”...........

I totally agree hahah anyone I met says...beta u haven't gone??? so pissing off....at least know abt the process and then talk ...im not shifting to delhi im shifting to Canada dumbo

 

[can_4visa]

But what we can we do can't stop anybody from asking such kind of silly questions. Also people over here are more concerned about others life.

I totally agree hahah anyone I met says...beta u haven't gone??? so pissing off....at least know abt the process and then talk ...im not shifting to delhi im shifting to Canada dumbo

 

[fingerscrossed88]

@jask n @myrah7

I agree to all wht u r saying...Even if v try to be positive,some unwanted bunch of ppl always manage to sumhw mak us feel low....They feel as if goin to Canada is just like goin to any market or sumthin....u just need to pack ur stuff n go...bt only God knws wht v r goin thru...I hv become so impatient these days..even though I am stayin wid my mom...I always end up quarreling wid her fr sumthin or the other n the worst part is the day n night timings gap in india n canada...Whole week passes just like tht since our loved ones are wrkin during the weekdays n only on weekends v get more tym to tok....I AM GOIN TO MEET EACH PERSON WHO HAVE WORSENED MY WAITING PERIOD BY PASSIN UNWANTED N CREEPY COMMENTS BEFORE LEAVING INDIA SO THT ATLEAST THEY GET TO SLEEP WELL WHEN I LEAVE CZ THEY R SO BOTHERED ABT ME N MY HUSBAND..LOL..!! ;D

 

[user828]

Atleast with ND, they process spouse cases faster, look at Pakistan - those folks are royally screwed

But with skyoe, facetime - atleast you can keep in touch

 

[Myrah7]

Atleast with ND, they process spouse cases faster, look at Pakistan - those folks are royally screwed

But with skyoe, facetime - atleast you can keep in touch

in indian anyways most ppl are frustrated..thats y they like to poke their nose in everyones face....
try to communicate how much ever with your wife/husband wassup bbm facetalk gtalk Skype phone calls sms........and pls ppl who are here in india waiting....don't fight with your parents....u gonna really miss them once u r gone....I know u loose your frustration on parents but keep your mind cool.....go join kick boxing swimming or start the gym...workout 1-2 hrs and remove it thr......go join classes do charity....do something to keep busy if u r not working....the more u sit idle the more u will fall sick.....and get frustrated...like I said this is a exam we all have to pass with flyin colors..

 

[user828]

in indian anyways most ppl are frustrated..thats y they like to poke their nose in everyones face....
try to communicate how much ever with your wife/husband wassup bbm facetalk gtalk Skype phone calls sms........and pls ppl who are here in india waiting....don't fight with your parents....u gonna really miss them once u r gone....I know u loose your frustration on parents but keep your mind cool.....go join kick boxing swimming or start the gym...workout 1-2 hrs and remove it thr......go join classes do charity....do something to keep busy if u r not working....the more u sit idle the more u will fall sick.....and get frustrated...like I said this is a exam we all have to pass with flyin colors..

India will remain like that, its the way it is - gossip and personal chit/chat it is. These things annoy you especially if you back after a 10 year gap like me, I couldn't believe what my beloved Bombay changed to

Few tips I would like to share
- Try and get as much as care insurance paperwork ( this will help you get discounts on care insurance ) - its doesn't have to look too genuine, if you get 5-10 years of car insurance, you start with lot of discount and makes a huge difference
- Try and research jobs around your area, if you really wanna make good money then nursing is a good career here and they always require people

 

[Myrah7]

India will remain like that, its the way it is - gossip and personal chit/chat it is. These things annoy you especially if you back after a 10 year gap like me, I couldn't believe what my beloved Bombay changed to

Few tips I would like to share
- Try and get as much as care insurance paperwork ( this will help you get discounts on care insurance ) - its doesn't have to look too genuine, if you get 5-10 years of car insurance, you start with lot of discount and makes a huge difference
- Try and research jobs around your area, if you really wanna make good money then nursing is a good career here and they always require people

ya Bombay has changed a lot and the traffic is crazy .... and hey thx for the tips...

 

[saniali]

im so sorry to hear this ....pray your visa comes thru asap.....whats your timeline?

5 feb 13- app applied
25 feb 13 file trans to NDVO
18 april 13 PPR
24th may 13 passport sent

 

[magessss]

I think its somehow easy to cope up with this situation for those who are staying with family. People staying alone gets more frustrated and worried because of lack of support, specially if somebody is staying out of his/her own country. So best thing is too keep yourself busy.

I totally agree with you, people who are living alone will have problems in mixing with the family because of the pressure and also the responsibility that they will be having. The best thing to do is don't get frustrated because of the responsibilities and stay happy and enjoy your life.