fingerscrossed88 said:
@ MAGESSSS::I can relate to wht u r sayin as my husband ws too upset due to ths...He had almost made up his mind to leave everythin n cum bak to india so tht v cn settle down here..Bt his case is even worse..He has his mom n dad n his family there in canada..he feels he is stuck..he cn neither just walk off all his responsibilities n say a plain n simple bye to his parents n cum here to me..n frankly i wud never support him fr tht too..Ths is the worst tym of my life i cn say ths...even though ours ws an arranged marriage bt ths waiting time has almost takin away every bit of excitement n that "spark" frm our relationship..I really wish we all get our pp bak..
Hey Fingerscrossed,
I also have all my family parents, sister, brother living here in Canada with me. I too have the same responsibilities and cannot walk out on them. I know how you guys feel and believe me nobody want to do this kind of act to there family members.
We are brought up in a society that teach us to take care of our love ones. Also you need to know that we have our private life that we have to take care off and judging by the feeling of your husband I agree that we get so frustrated some times that we need to leave everything. Just a suggestion that what ever you are doing is very kind for your husband. Please keep up the good work and talk to him as I do to my wife make him understand that this is a short wait for both of you and you will be together some day and will fulfill all the stuff that you guys dreamed about.
I have a lovely wife and she also do the same to me and helps me calm down. I get hyper some times and she makes me calm by hearing me and telling me that it is going to be fine.
Just hang in there. And support your spouse.