i'm so sorry for this
in comparison we can't complain, we see each other twice a year, but everytime he visits me he stays around 2 months.. (now he stays 3 months, he arrives tomorrow!!! yay! ;D) ... he does have to quit his job everytime he comes to see me though .
well it's ok to visit, it's just that if you apply for a TRV you have 99,99% chance to get refused since CIC will consider him your strongest family tie and will conclude that you're at risk of overstaying your visa.. i have the same problem.. no matter how much i respect the laws and want to do it by the book, no one will give me the "benefit of the doubt" unfortunately. :
we'll get through this, stay strong!
it will be over at one point!