I feel the same way like you! I came to Canada on a Working Holiday Visa and I had a good job until April 2012 when I had to leave my job because my WHV expired and my company was not very helpful in getting a LMO and also the job I was in would have not helped to get a positive LMO.
I hate that my hubby is working his a** off to support the both of us and we still don't have enough money. It's getting more and more stressful. The worst part is, that after sponsor approval, I have no idea how long my VO will need.
I am thankful though that I am staying with my hubby at this time. Wouldn't know how to get through this being far away from him.
I hate being so helpless, the only thing we all can do is wait wait wait...