IslandAnnie
Hero Member
- Nov 9, 2012
- 22
- Category........
- Visa Office......
- CPP-O
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- 23-11-2012
- AOR Received.
- 29-11-2012
- File Transfer...
- 29-11-2012
- Med's Done....
- 14-11-2012
- Passport Req..
- 08-05-2013 never received, pp submitted 09-07-2013
- VISA ISSUED...
- 31-07-2013
- LANDED..........
- 22-08-2013
I am very sorry to hear of any marriage ending...and I am even sadder to hear of yours ending ELO, because those of us who have had to live apart from those we love know the difficulties. You have my sympathy and prayers....
Here is one bit of truth and advice.. if even one person in a marriage says it's over, that is enough. Like someone said earlier, it take two to make a marriage work. Life is very short (and I am plenty old enough to know it is VERY short), so be HAPPY. I have seen too many people waste years in marriages where they will never be happy because their spouse has no commitment to work on it. If you have done everything you can to make it work, then there is nothing more you can do..we don't have control over other people.
I hope you do what makes you happy... a marriage ending is very painful, but after a time there is healing and after healing, opportunity for true happiness. (I know this because it took over 50 years, one divorce and being widowed once, for me to find it.)
Wishing love to all,
Annie
Here is one bit of truth and advice.. if even one person in a marriage says it's over, that is enough. Like someone said earlier, it take two to make a marriage work. Life is very short (and I am plenty old enough to know it is VERY short), so be HAPPY. I have seen too many people waste years in marriages where they will never be happy because their spouse has no commitment to work on it. If you have done everything you can to make it work, then there is nothing more you can do..we don't have control over other people.
I hope you do what makes you happy... a marriage ending is very painful, but after a time there is healing and after healing, opportunity for true happiness. (I know this because it took over 50 years, one divorce and being widowed once, for me to find it.)
Wishing love to all,
Annie