Love or Opportunity? Coffee Social

[m_and_m]

Good morning! Anybody up yet? I'd have pleeeeeeenty of time to talk now...anyone??

I hope both Ms Malawi and jerry84 are feeling better.

I'm glad I found this forum, and this thread, because we're all going through the same process..and most of us I believe are far away from their loved one(s). It is difficult for sure...I got used to seeing my husband every day, for years. And to be honest I thought this would be easier, that I could go through this without being too sad and emotional. Surprise surprise, it didn't work! But my husband's support is what makes it easier. Of course we have bad days as well, but we usually end up laughing because the situation's just too stupid to argue over (like if I take a shower and then come back to say bye, or if we say bye now and I'll go take a shower after that). ???

 

[tuyen]

Good morning! Anybody up yet? I'd have pleeeeeeenty of time to talk now...anyone??

I'm up (still).

But you probably wanted girl-talk first thing in the morning.

 

[m_and_m]

Oh I'm not too picky...anyone will do
I was actually just laughing at that astronaut thing, you are funny!

 

[tuyen]

Oh I'm not too picky...anyone will do
I was actually just laughing at that astronaut thing, you are funny!

And don't forget, crusher of dreams.

 

[m_and_m]

And don't forget, crusher of dreams.

You can always take it as a compliment!

Ah I kinda wish I had a problem or something, would love to hear your opinion on it!!

 

[tuyen]

Ah I kinda wish I had a problem or something, would love to hear your opinion on it!!

Do what most women do when they don't have a problem: create one.

 

[m_and_m]

Hahahahha yes, you're right. Who am I kidding?! There's always something wrong

 

[amikety]

Hahahahha yes, you're right. Who am I kidding?! There's always something wrong

Of course there is. Men won't stop wearing socks with their sandals!

 

[m_and_m]

hahahaa so true!!
I'm glad you woke up, finally! I'm about to go home though...but glad I could at least say HI

 

[amikety]

Hi! 8)

My husband and cat are busy waking me up. Stinky neighbors kept me awake until 1 am drunkenly yelling at each other. I can't stand these morons. I'm so tempted to rent a BSB cd from the library and play it REALLY loudly when they're asleep for revenge.........

 

[m_and_m]

Oh yes I bet BSB would work!!! ;D

 

[jerry84]

I am definitely not feeling better, things got super ugly. I am just letting him be for a few days, I hope he realizes he's wrong.

 

[lunas]

I am definitely not feeling better, things got super ugly. I am just letting him be for a few days, I hope he realizes he's wrong.

Hugs

 

[jerry84]

Hugs

When I said why would you go and tell her everything.. HE GOES AND TELLS HER AGAIN "MY WIFE IS MAD AT ME CUZ I DISCUSSED ISSUES WITH YOU", he is 28 years old and I have never seen him behave immaturely .. let alone this level of immatureness. I don't know what to do. My heart is sinking, and I hate discussing my issues with anyone .

 

[Halfmoon]

I am definitely not feeling better, things got super ugly. I am just letting him be for a few days, I hope he realizes he's wrong.

Good morning ladies and Tuyen!

Jerry I'm sorry you don't feel better. He didn't like the idea about putting on the astronaut suit and taking a trip to space huh?
It may be best to let things cool if it got too overheated. Try your best not to focus on him just for a couple of days. (I know you're saying to me, How can I possibly not?) Well it won't be easy but it will make you feel better to know you can take reign and handle it your way, since the cooperation levels aren't there right now.

I know you want things to be resolved ASAP but unfortunately, not all men function that way or even have the capacity to and rushing them to may not be the best solution either. No matter what, just take care of yourself. **Big Hugs**