Love or Opportunity? Coffee Social

[Ms Malawi]

Shaking my head - Tuyeniee you have much to learn.

What she is REALLY saying and here is the Venus translation "Tuyen, I WANT your baby, perhaps a whole cabbage patch of them HOWEVER you really need to continue begging me to have your offspring because I LOVE when you beg. It makes me feel wanted and loved. It makes me feel like the most important woman in the world!!!"

Come on Tuyen beg.. I agree with Moonie!!! She will swoon when you beg and make her feel soo important.. other than dealing with your man coat!

 

[blueboom]

When??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm so jealous!!!!

Three weeks from today.

And not to worry.. did I forget to tell you I married the most conservative man in Malawi. When we stay with his mom we sleep in separate rooms and good luck getting even a kiss good night! Im thinking the Parkers will be wrecking some havoc!!!

My husband was conservative when I met him (his ex, who he was with for a long time, was extremely conservative). Something changed him. HMMMMM, I don't know what it was!

When we visited my family (before we were married), we initially started out in separate rooms, and eventually I just started sleeping in his room. My mom said "DON'T DISRESPECT YOUR FAMILY!!", and my sister said "well, just keep the door open so mom won't lose her head" and my brother would get up in the middle of the night and close the door LOL. Obviously only my mom cared.

 

[tuyen]

Were the dates in your bed? Movie, dinner and night cap?? 3-in-1 LOLOL!!!

No, dear Moonshine, they were NOT. =P

I have very high standards, and I've never had any interest in easy girls.

 

[Ms Malawi]

Three weeks from today.

That is sooo exciting!!! Yay for Blueboom!!!

My husband was conservative when I met him (his ex, who he was with for a long time, was extremely conservative). Something changed him. HMMMMM, I don't know what it was!

I love this statement!!! I think things will be different when he leaves Malawi and the idea of being the perfect son. Part of him being the baby I think! But I got a feeling he will come around when we live together and are not having that little birdie watching over our shoulder!!

 

[tuyen]

Come on Tuyen beg.. I agree with Moonie!!! She will swoon when you beg and make her feel soo important.. other than dealing with your man coat!

A man shouldn't have to beg his wife for children. That's just wrong on so many levels...

Besides, she's already the most loved and cherished girl ever, and she gets more affection than she ever knew was possible. So she has nothing to complain about.

 

[Halfmoon]

No, dear Moonshine, they were NOT. =P

I have very high standards, and I've never had any interest in easy girls.

I just can't imagine any woman wanting a child on the first or second date unless she was down to her last egg in life on the date. :-X

 

[Halfmoon]

A man shouldn't have to beg his wife for children. That's just wrong on so many levels...

Hmm good point. But she isn't your wife yet so hurry up and tie the knot!!

 

[tuyen]

I just can't imagine any woman wanting a child on the first or second date unless she was down to her last egg in life on the date. :-X

Some women are VERY eager to have children - especially when they're dating a guy whom they see as having good-daddy-for-my-babies potential.

The most baby-crazed girl I've ever dated was 23 at the time, and she was definitely no where near down to her last eggs..

Actually, no...scratch that. I just remembered Sarah. She was 19 and was ready to give me twins.

 

[Ms Malawi]

I think there are different ways to beg. And certain ones definitely make a girl feel important but since she is already the "most loved" women.. your good!

I just can't imagine any woman wanting a child on the first or second date unless she was down to her last egg in life on the date. :-X

Or she sees $$ signs or <3 <3 forever?

 

[blueboom]

A man shouldn't have to beg his wife for children. That's just wrong on so many levels...

I'm with you on that. At the end of the day, the children are coming out of her, so she's got to make that choice in time (obviously with your input). Spouses begging the other spouse for children only makes it worse.

 

[Halfmoon]

Some women are VERY eager to have children - especially when they're dating a guy whom they see as having good-daddy-for-my-babies potential.

The most baby-crazed girl I've ever dated was 23 at the time, and she was definitely no where near down to her last eggs..

Actually, no...scratch that. I just remembered Sarah. She was 19 and was ready to give me twins.

Awww Papa Bear.

 

[blueboom]

Actually, no...scratch that. I just remembered Sarah. She was 19 and was ready to give me twins.

That reminds me of this, but is nowhere nearly as bad. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDijQwR80Oc

 

[tuyen]

Really??? Wow I feel honoured we are gonna wait for everyone. The whole 27 months looming ahead makes me feel a little off.. but you all make it easier to see the end!!

Yeah...we'll wait for everyone (myself included - because I haven't even started the process yet). And don't assume that you'll have to wait the full 27 months. You could get lucky and be done in half that time.

And not to worry.. did I forget to tell you I married the most conservative man in Malawi. When we stay with his mom we sleep in separate rooms and good luck getting even a kiss good night!

Oh my god...don't even get me started on that. My girlfriend REFUSED to even CONSIDER the possibility of us sleeping in the same room when we would go visit her parents. And yes...in the beginning, I was more than willing to accommodate her wishes out of respect for her parents. But she said it would be like that even after we were engaged, and even after we were married! At that I point...you didn't even need to see my lips move. All you needed to do was look into my eyes in order to know that there was the biggest "WTF!?" in the history of all histories emanating from my brain.

 

[tuyen]

That reminds me of this, but is nowhere nearly as bad. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDijQwR80Oc

I had to turn it off when he said that she admitted to having sex with over 300 men...all by the age of 15.

I don't even want to TRY and imagine how screwed up that girl's life is going to be, or how many millions of therapy dollars it would require to even scratch the surface of fixing her.

 

[Ms Malawi]

Yeah...we'll wait for everyone (myself included - because I haven't even started the process yet). And don't assume that you'll have to wait the full 27 months. You could get lucky and be done in half that time.

I am trying to be positive. But at the same time not getting my hopes up. Though from what I have heard there is good progress within a year.. so I may just get lucky!!!

All you needed to do was look into my eyes in order to know that there was the biggest "WTF!?" in the history of all histories emanating from my brain.

I think I have seen the same look. And I know things will change in time. Just gotta be patient!