And yes I can contribute to the talks that people make I get them too but my family always encourages me,they say stuff like she nah gu bck a foreign it look like a Dip(deport) she get fi ar husband mus have another gal ova deh I can go on and on but I pay them no mine. These jacans just chat too much especially when they don't know your business oh and people who suppose to be your friends they talk too,(sympathetic hyprocritics) that's what we called them but hey my husband make sure am well taken care of yes I get bored and frustrated because I try looking a job while I was here and nothing so of course you will get stressed out cause I know he has to pay the bills over there plus out here its a lot on him and he is not rich lol,at least when I was there things was a bit better cause I was working so it wasn't so hard I believe in one hand washes the other and it takes two to tango. All my male hubbies and female ones please be strong because after a STORM there must be a Calm how long can they keep us away from our love ones how long!!!!!!!!!.So wives just continue to send sexy pic to your hubbies and Skype as often as you can.