Ladies and gents...(won't name all at the risk of leaving anyone out and offending)
I do sincerely wish to thank all of you that I have spent time with over the past many months on here. While I know I went quiet awhile back, I have often checked in to see how the gang was doing. I am glad to see that there continues to be a strong support network on here where many have spilled their frustrations and sadness and in days like today, celebrated their joy.
At the end of the day, we are all going through the same thing. I don't have to tell any of you how it feels, but please, please (especially you Stressed)...believe me when I say...just believe in your husband/wife...believe in your love...and believe in your god/this universe as taking care of things exactly as they are meant to be. You will endure your wait...how ever long it is meant to be.
As someone who thought her husband would have been here for our wedding anniversary last July, I can tell you that it will be over 14 months by the time he gets here from when we filed. That was a tough 14 months. But I'd do it again and wait longer if I had to...if it meant being with my soulmate forever.
Sure...it's so easy to say all this now Peace...you're done. Yes, I am. And I deserve to be. As do all of you. And for those of you who are struggling with the wait...do all you can to keep your connection alive and well with your honey. We are all building a crazy, strong foundation that many marriages don't begin with. Believe it.
We will all get our day. Some sooner than others, but rest assured, if it is meant to be...it will be. God and this great universe will allow nothing less.
And Maple...for whatever reasons the universe is testing you and your hubby with your situation, I have every belief in my every fibre that you will prevail soon. You are one strong, brave and confident woman and I wish you a reunion very soon.
Lonely - so happy for you this Sunday. Your endurance test is over. Your faith has kept you in this...tough days and strong ones. Enjoy every darn minute of the rest of your life with your family...I wish you all the best.
I'm glad this forum was around and that you've all indulged me to lurk and share my news over the past few months. This process took its toll on me too, but I am so thrilled to say that hubby and I have survived it. I am just so freakin' excited to finally start my life with hubby FOREVER.
Wishing all of you the patience, faith and great and eternal love that you each deserve. Happy reunions to all the great folks who are finally getting their news.
Be well everyone. As hubby always said...'nothing before its time'. If has yet to come, may your time soon come.
Glory to God!
