Kingston,Jamaica

[proper]

Good morning family!!

 

[CharlieD10]

Morning Mr Proper!

How goes the day?

 

[proper]

Not too bad Charlie, loving Jaruby's great news this morning and praying Kingston continue the trend
How are you? I must say i admire your patience and attitude charlie, I'm normally cranky and dont wanna be around people for while after my wife leaves but you on the other hand manage to still be cheerful. I wish i had that

 

[CharlieD10]

Back again! Sorry for the late reply Mr Proper, had to run out and pick up some things and drop off some things and do some things...you get the idea. LOL.

Thank you, Mr. Proper, that is very kind of you to say so. But, Proper, I hate it when the Mr. leaves. Right now I am sleeping on his side of the bed on his pillows because I can keep him close to me that way, LOL. I stay cheerful because if I am unhappy, if I cry when he leaves, the last thing he sees of me until next time is my face crumpled up in tears, and red as a lobster, it ain't pretty! All kidding aside, I want him to leave with a good picture of me in his head, for him to be eager to see me again.

I am also cheerful when we are apart because there is nothing I can do about the process by being anxious or fretful. I learned a long time ago through other events in my life that I only cause myself unnecessary stress when I let anxiety about things over which I have no control rule my life. On the other side of the coin is that this process is even worse for my husband than it is for me. He is by nature a doer, he is used to seeing something that needs to be done and doing it. The fact that he has no control over something so important is very difficult for him to deal with, and I am sure as a man that is something you can relate to. I therefore see it as part of my "job" as his wife not to add to his frustration or lack of control by being anxious or negative or sad. Yes, I do feel these emotions, but I deal with them myself and because I am used to dealing with them myself, you will find that I don't talk about them much, since what I don't tell my husband, I don't usually tell anyone else either.

Well, since you said there is good news elsewhere, that means KG is working! Let's hear it for them! Go KG, GO!

 

[lonely_wife]

Good afternoon everyone!!!

Its a beautiful day Hoping that everyone is having a great day

 

[CharlieD10]

Good afternoon lonely_wife!

It is a lovely day, yep, nice and overcast in Kingston (cool) with a little sprinkle of rain.

Hope you had a great weekend!

 

[proper]

Ok Charlie, i understand but youre still one strong woman. This whole process eats at me alot and i cant wait for it to come to an end. I know its wishful thinking but I've missed the birth of my daughter amongst other things and would love nothing more than to be there for her first day of school atleast... the closer it gets to summer and September is the more figgity i become

 

[Kedeisha]

Proper u time soon come u n the MRS will be reunited soon

Happy belated mothers day

 

[CharlieD10]

Aww Mr Proper...in it's "proper" time, you will be home to Mrs Proper

Meanwhile, think positive thoughts about the process, and as my brother always tells me, "Make your wishes known to the universe. Visualise your desires and believe in them." My bro can be very new-agey sometimes. Still, scientists say we can influence the universe with our thoughts on a molecular level, so I see nothing wrong with what he says. Christians say "claim it", which to me is pretty much the same thing.

Think about being there with her, holding her hand as she skips in...and then peeling them off your pants leg when it's time for you to leave and she decides she's had enough of this school business and wants to go back home! LOL. I will be holding a good thought for your family, that you get to share in that special day with Mrs. Proper.

 

[lonely_wife]

Charlie!!! I had a busy weekend again with work and sleep... I am starting to feel better The coughing is slowly going away and the bottle of Buckleys is almost done hahahaha (I bought the biggest size) I can't even look at the bottle no more lol

 

[proper]

lol Thanks Charlie and Kedeisha

 

[jahlove]

Good morning family!!! today is updates day again, cant wait to see all the good news.

Lets go kgn lets go!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[highlyfavored]

hey guys how u all doing i trust all the mom enjoyed their special day ok well I am am back to earth now doing much better with the lost of that relationship. so I am back in full mental strength

anyways i am have a question how do u order CAPS? if thats the right wording

 

[ladyposh]

Morning Everyone, I hope all is well.

Quick Question: My cousin got married to someone is JA last week and they are getting everything ready for the application....the wife has kids....a boy 9 and a daughter 19 in university.. DOes she have do do medical for the kids to send in with the application?

 

[CharlieD10]

Good morning everyone! Jahlove, highlyfavored, ladyposh, how are the early birds?

Ladyposh - Medicals must be included for all family members, whether accompanying or non-accompanying and her dependent children would be considered family members. Remember, if she does not do the medicals for the children, even if they are not going with her, after she lands SHE CAN NEVER SPONSOR THEM, EVER. That's the law. Unexamined and undeclared family members are not sponsor-able.

Since the children are minors, it is also a good idea to include them on the application NOW, rather than try to get them later. Their ages would be locked in as they are now, no matter how long it takes to process the application. This is not a consideration so much for the younger one, but the older one is 19 already.

I hope everyone has a great day, whatever the day gets them up to.

Well, I am going to do some housework, and then later I am off to walk in the park with my friend, hopefully. I am trying to get her out and about and interested in maintaining her physical health to improve her mental health, sort of an "anima sana in corpore sana" (a sound mind in a sound body) kind of approach, things have been very stressful for her lately. Let's see how it goes.

Let's hear it for KG! Go, KG, GO! NEXT!