There is so much in the guide, what I need to send, they want my last years return, but was only working a couple of part time jobs then, have a full time and part time one now ( actually, have 3 part time ones, lol ), but if they go by that, financally, I wouldnt be able to support him if he cant find work right away, I have only been to Ja once, when we got married, I know they will question me only being there once, but I believe I have that covered, having part time jobs, was soooooo hard to take time off from all of them, they want phone records, he calls me, I dont have any records, pics I have, but no record of phone calls, on face book, I have messages from the time we became friends on there till now, also states when our relationship started. I am worried I will miss something extremly important, but all I can do is send what I can. How about on the first page, when they ask if a person wants their money back, sounds like a trick question, lol, if I say yes, will they think I dont believe he will be allowed to come? They also say its a good idea to send the 550 and the other amount at one time, but I cant afford to lose that much, if I say no, I dont want my money back...any suggestions on this? Thanks so much for all of you making me feel so welcomed, I do appreciate that and the help I am receiving, your all wonderful people