Ah, I see for all of you it's definitely a matter of circumstance (distance and cost of flying/medical issues/financial reasons).
Sorry to hear that guys, it's really frustrating being separated from our spouses due to circumstances beyond our control. Just goes to show that being from a visa-exempt country doesn't necessarily make it easier to visit partners because there are costs and sacrifices associated with it that we can't all take. Here's to hoping we get more movement in our files within the next month--there's still time for us to hit the 6-month processing time (though I know right now the chances look bleak). I think once we get biometric requests (for those that still need it) it'll at least be a sign that our files are being looked at again instead of sitting on a pile.