ATTN: NEED HELP!
I am the sponsor and I just sponsored my common-law and she has just landed on March 26th. We have been in nearly a 4 year relationship now and just landed.
I caught her flirting with another guy and she enjoys all the attention at the moment. She tells me she hasn't been taking been taking care of herself and just enjoys loving herself and not anyone specifically. She wants to break up and not to be with me. She says she lost feeling for me nearly approx 1 year ago.
Key points of story:
- flirted with another guy and remains in touch with him
- refuse to stop contacting him and says she doesn't flirt with him anymore
- is surprised that common-law marriage is like a marriage and we are not just boyfriend/girlfriend as she thinks. acts very surprised.
- wants to stay another 4-6 months in canada and not be in a relationship with me. I told her to go leave Canada by May 1st as I can revoke her status (not sure?).
- she has an airplane ticket to back to her home country in May 1st (we were suppose to go together to see her parents for the first time) and wants to return back to Vancouver and continue to work.
- she is saying 1 month is not enough time for her
- says she need the extra time to find a replacement for her position etc.
- expresses she will move out soon
- she has two friends that has been sponsored and is now single living in canada, leaving their sponsor
- she is a very selfish and manipulative person to get things her way
- I have tried to hold the relationship together and do everything I can but I think she is a goner
Concern:
What rights do I have as a sponsor? What should I be doing in this situation? All details and help is much appreciated. What approach should I do to proceed with this?
Thanks again for the support,
MisterBob