Hi moeytja!!
Well me and my wife had a short relationship, about 18 months before getting married (Dec 2011), but lived together all the time since it started and in different nations. We met in New Zealand and travelled to USA, Italy (my home country), then New Zealand again. We stayed apart for three months but keept in contact every day (I provided evidence of this of course).
Because we travelled and worked together so much and we weren't sure of how "strong" was our case, we went to an immigration consultant, that helped us to file our case. It was expensive but I think that in our case it was worth the money.
Also my wife is 5 years older than me so we didn't know if that looked "suspicious" or not. Our relationship is genuine and the consultant helped us a lot explaining how to provide all the evidence in the appropriate way.
It was a pain for me to gather all the the information, circumstances of meeting,addresses, police certificates, plane tickets, hotel reservations,photos, evidence of trips, etc. But in the end I did it, and I am very happy about it.
The only thing I am concerned about is this 11 months waiting time before we get an answer and in the meantime I can't work. I hope this time will go quick!
Where are you in Calgary? We live in Bowness.