Wordlife said:
Well actually these days students are more informed.. they actually know WHAT JOBS they will get there and how busy life is! But the fact is alotttt of ppl r willing to take up those jobs bcuz anything is better than 10k to 30k indian salary and no future gaurantee. We love to live with "KOI NA HO JUGA, RABB SAB SET KARDUGA" mentality. lol. If agents show the clear picture of whats coming ahead, things would be so much better for parents and kids. This would let them make more informed decision. Agents will always tell "CASH JOB KRLEGA BETA and FEES NIKAL JAYEGI". This is in their blood. I mean whats the point of going abroad if it isnt for better life!! Ppl should know its tough out their FOR THOSE COMING WITH ONLY ONE SEMESTER FEE AND FEW THOUSAND IN POCKET!! This is reality. No money no honey! No relatives would pay their fee or lend them money or even keep them in their home for entire course duration. My friend drives taxi + delivers pizza + goes to college... and he too had tough first 6 months!! he comes home just to sleep for few hours!! Jus Reign should make one such video instead of making all those brown indian videos. And lastly dont forget there is always going to be a border between indian nri students and international students. I could be wrong but i get a feel they dont like us except few of them!! <<< Correct me on this line. I really wanna know ur experience!!
Assuming you mean Indian NRI as in Canadian Indian students and Indian visa students, then there is definitely a clash of cultures of a kind. Indo-canadian (those that are born here to desi parents) mostly resent the restricted lifestyle their parents impose on them and want to live like their white canadian friends and in the course will resent anything brown. You can still be friends with canadian desi guys bit its hard to do so with girls (if thats where you were going with this). Many reasons:
1. Different ways of thinking, values, idea of fun etc. Those from India have a lot to worry about: work, grades, family, future. Those born here dont have all those problems (or atleast most of these problems). so if you cant relate, you cant become friends.
2. The one persistent thing on Indian students' minds that keeps canadian desi's away, specially girls: getting PR by any means necessary. There have far too many horror stories of marriages of convenience or PR scams and such that just keeps people on the edge at all times. Even parents will advise their daughters to stay clear of Indian guys, those on visa's in Canada. It's a fact.
3. Canadian desi's tend to hang out with old friends they've known for some time. Most have gone to the same school and attend the same universities. If going to a new place, they'd prefer making white friends than brown.
4. Group of friends mentality- if some new guy comes into your school, would it be really easy for him to just walk into your group of friends and be your homie? Nope, not so easy. Same logic applies.
5. Tendacy of Asians to form their own groups and stick with each other and not integrate. One of the questions a lot of people ask on this forum is "Are there any * * (insert bangladeshi/ pakistani/ indians/ filipinos) in this city/ campus". Why does it matter? If going to school with your own people is so important, might as well stay home.
Us indians go a step further and split into north and south indians and both groups will have something to say about the other, even if they've never hung out with each other. 'Southies' call 'northies' loud alcoholics, 'northies' call 'southies' bookworm no-fun nerds (not my words but what ive heard multiple times). Perhaps its this mentality too that keeps canadian desi's away from Indians.
I always say that whoever is coming to Canada or any other country for that matter, leave your baggage at the airport in India. By baggage i mean your prejudices, caste, creed, discriminatory values... get rid of it all and you will have no problem making friends.
I went to Uvic and i had maybe a couple of Canadian-indian friends (not a lot of indians here) and most of my friends were (still are) other Asians and white canadians. But you will find the divide more prominent where there are more Indian students because all those things ive talked about are present there in bigger proportions.