Way back in November 2009. My new Canadian wife and I started reading the specific forms and requirements for Family Class spousal sponsorship.
I started gathering all the documents. Call a DMP who scheduled a medial appointment in six weeks, I thought WTF, six weeks to schedule a medical checkup! I called around and was able to schedule an appoint with DMP in Toronto that same week which was in early December 2009.
Regarding security clearance, I thought I could just go back to the States and get a police report from my home town that I lived in for the past 20 years. But then realized that's not what CIC wanted, so I got finger prints for State police. Then realized that CIC wanted an FBI report. So early December I mail my fingerprints to the FBI..... 13 weeks later I got the FBI report back but my fingerprints were rejected.
We went to Florida on vacation, and I thought I would have them redone there, but that didn't work as I had no idea where to go. After coming back to Ontario, I called several places and ended up going to Toronto to a professional fingerprinting service. I then sent those fingerprints to the FBI in April 2010, and am still waiting.....
I've been here 10 months since moving from the States to Ontario to marry and be with my new Canadian bride. I've not been able to work because I'm "Not Legal", and have still not been able to file for PR waiting for the infamous FBI report which could come any day....
Two weeks ago my new Canadian wife said she did not want to take the legal responsibility to sponsor me because I have not been able to support here since I came here. We have talked since and I think she will sponsor me. However until which time the sponsorship/PR application is actually filed she could change her mind again. In which case I told her I will have no choice but to return to the States since I will no longer have implied visitor status, and very little chance to (legally) work here in Canada....
So yeah I'm one of those that had their medical (exam) done six months prior to having any other legal documents submitted. Not only that but (I believe) the Canadian Immigration system is NOT conducive to new marriages. They put tremendous stress on families and marriages by either forcing them to be separated or making it illegal for the "foreign" spouses to support their families.....