scylla said:
Seriously? You realize that not everyone can get married - right? Just because two people aren't married doesn't mean their commitment is any less serious than a married couple.
Anyway - pointless argument. CIC definition of common law is black and white. Absolutely nothing grey about it. One year cohabitation = common law.
Seriously! When I think of marriage, I consider both straight and gay marriages, both of which are allowed in Canada. Then you have those who are separated from their spouse going through a divorce. In this situation, if you're already considered to be legally married, then how can the government consider a common law marriage, simultaneously? Wouldn't that fall under polygamy? To be honest, those are the only 3 considerations I see and took into account when referring to why they wouldn't get married, but would take on a 3yr financial commitment.
I said it was shades of gray, because they seem to require so much documentation to prove common law, but, if you merely state you've been residing with a partner they will be quick to jump on the misrepresentation bandwagon, with little proof aside from what you said. At least that is the vibe I get from the responses.
In the end, it doesn't matter to me, none of this even applies to me. I was just trying to understand it better. Sorry for asking questions and trying to open a dialogue to help better understand this scenario. Seems there are some on here who come with the claws out and ready to attack for someone trying to understand something. I'm seeing very little tolerance is demonstrated.