getting a loan for application?

[Applechunks]

Theres a significant difference between giving out personal information to some random who thinks they have all the answers online, and an immigration officer trying to find out if my relationship is real.

If you have such an issue with randoms who think they have all the answers online, why would you come to a user driven forum to seek answers??
The way you respond to people is awful, I hope you don't behave that way in your normal life.
People on here provide assistance, for the most part out of a genuine desire to assist people to overcome hurdles they too have experienced. The least you could do is thank them and politely disregard the bits you don't need.
Here's hoping to not run into you in Canada, where manners are a hallmark!
Good luck to you.