bobshynoswife
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- Nov 16, 2009
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- Category........
- Visa Office......
- Accra
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- 18-05-2010
- File Transfer...
- 22-06-2010
- Interview........
- 24-08-2010
- VISA ISSUED...
- 24-08-2010
- LANDED..........
- 09-09-2010
My apologies. I did read it quickly and assumed you were PRO fast-tracking when pregnancy is involved, not using your case as an example of how everyone has a reason to want to be fast-tracked. I'm so sorry it looked like I was against you.mingus said:you are taking what I said completely out of context, I am agreeing that just because childern are involved, a case shouldn'y be fast tracked.. I was just saying that my case along with any other number of for instances could apply. I always said that being pregnant only proves one thing... That the woman had sex and not necessarly with her husband.. and with IVF I guess you could say it doesn't even really prove the sex part any more.
Not that it is any of your business really, but we were taking precautions too for the first 2 years but for us age become an issue. Plus, before we took this step forward to try to start a family, we had won our appeal in November of 2009, were told that once you won an appeal your file was given priority and given that the average wait time for my husband's visa office is 6 months, didn't think that 8 months later we would still be waiting. We are painfully aware of the consequences of our choices, not just the choice to try to have a child before I got too old ( and I not talking about turning 30 either... think higher), but the choice we made to decide to live in Canada, the choice for me to return here to wait it out, the choice to go for an appeal vs reapplying, and many more choices.
As for your personal story, thank you for sharing that with me. It reminds me that I need to look at people with a much wider lens, and not assume everyone is like me! (I admit, that is one of my faults) Again, I truly hope you and your husband can be together for the birth of your child. It sucks when such an exciting time for you both has a black cloud over it because of the inexplicable time taken to process your positive appeal.