i'm sponsoring my husband, he is in iran ... in my life, if something bothers me i try to change it, but if i can't change it then i just try to accept it! and this sponsorship thing is totally out of my hands, so why bother myself, its time will come eventually, and also a watched pot never boils! lol! and finally i try to keep myself super busy and this way time passes by really fast!Ramz27 said:VIVI are you sponsoring ur husband or is he sponsoring u ? are you still sane cause im going nuts over this waiting period its killing me i dont know how to handle it ...can u tell me what u do to keep it together?