thank you so much for replying. There is no legal issues getting married in India. The problem again, is my family. The procedure in India is similar to that in Russia, ....after we give an application at the registry, there is a waiting period. My family is fairly well known and i cant even walk into the registry office without anyone recognising me.
How could living together in another country be an option? Is that so simple ?.For example, I move to the Middle East, how can i bring her to the Middle East unless I marry her. Plus it is illegal in so many countries. And it is not easy to move to countries where it is legal, also considering the fact that i hold an Indian passport. I cant move to any country and stay there for an year without a proper visa like a work visa.