You have not said what is your country of residence or where you were married. You may have legal options in your present country and possibly in Canada. Options against the girl may exist in your country. None in Canada, not since Canada eliminated the tort of "alienation of affection".
Yes once we get there. I dont know when and if it still possible since our PR is now compromised. This is all very unfair to me and my family. All because of this woman who destroyed all the plans we made and all the savings I had to process this opportunity.
“ Hell hath no fury like a women scorned “
Yes, there is nothing else I can do if I want to get my money's worth. At least I get the PR after all of this so me and my children can move on and get the opportunity we have been planning
Seems like husband destroyed your plans and not just this women. You keep saying she sabotaged your application but they are still together and planning to marry. It take two. Start saving and planning for life as a single parent. Get a good divorce lawyer. Again, if husband changes your status to non accompanying, you will not get PR. He can change your status and say he is divorcing you at any time before you land and get PR.
Your husband is the one who destoryed all of your plans. He is the one who engaged in an affair while married to you. He is the reason you are in this situation.
Then you are probably aware of Phils adultery laws and the rights they give you. In that regard, I would depart from @scylla's advice that there is "zero" you can do to the woman or that she has broken no laws. True, she has broken not Canadian law. However, in the Phils, there is quite a bit you can do, including invoking the criminal law, and in respect such things as ownership of the matrimonial home.
There's scope for pursuant spousal and child support in Canada. "Alimony" is not so much a Canadian law concept, but available under different nomenclature.
He is in Canda and I am in our Home country waiting for the PR application. At this point all I really care is that it will not be denied and I can get to Canada. The next step perhaps is to get legal representation to get the monetary support for us, and prehaps file a criminal case against the woman for what she has done. "It takes two to tango" so to speak and I know that I must concentrate on my husband since he is the one at fault. But I have known him for over 2 decades and I know how he thinks and this kind of sabotage, he really cannot do or even think of, so I know this came from the woman.
If your relationship has broken down then he does not qualify to include you in his PR applications and you are should only be listed as bin-accompanying in the PR application until your divorce is finalized. If you and your spouse try to go ahead with the PR application even though the marriage has broken down and you plan to get divorced that would be misrepresentation and your family’s PR status and then citizenship would always be at risk because it would have been obtained based on misrepresentation which means it could be lost. The progress bar being at 100% doesn’t actually mean that application has finished being processed. Progress bar is supposed to be a visual representation of the estimated average processing time so you often end up at 100% even though processing has not finished. Depending on the length of your marriage, whether you both agreed that you would be a stay at home mother, your family income and additional assets/savings, etc. alimony and child support may not be enough to live on or may not last a lifetime. Child support typically ends when children are adults and alimony may only last a certain length time depending on the length of the marriage. There is a good chance that you will need to return to work even if it is to return to work part-time when your children are a bit older.
