i will put forth my case in a basic bare bone so some can help me out...
married my wife (cousin) in dec 2010 over phone but we did have proper halls and ceremonies.... (they asked for "Power of attorney regarding appointment of attorney on behalf of sponsor issued from canada." in add docs... i stupidly overlooked this line... this info is in the nikkah nama, and i have to provide them with it still )... i couldn't go back home initially for the marriage due to landing a good job then and the arrangements were already made before hand, hence couldnt be actually present for it...
i went with my parents back home in Nov/dec 2011, but due to how our respective holidays worked here and back home, plus it fell on month of moharam, so we did not do big or normal rukhsati, instead we did a very basic rukhsati (keeping moharam in mind and the culture back home) so my immediate family went to wife's place, exchanged rings, and brought my wife with us... she stayed with us for the rest of the trip.. i told them this in my add doc cover letter, but they are still pestering me for photos (which i did provide, but since its not a big lavish party, they i suppose aren't believing it)
in nov/dec 2012 again i visited my wife for our second anniversary... again she was with me throughout the trip, and again we visited all our family members across punjab (again lots of photos as proof)... this was also sent with add doc proofs along with chat and phone logs...
i did my atip/gcms notes, and found them accepting our marriage genuine but having concern about the valima and rukhsati and asking for photos and not satisfied with what i provided coz it was too simple...
and the only other concern is that schedule-a form, but they acknowledge that it is incomplete (i dont know how) but that the missing info from it is present in the supplementary form and the additional paper i attached to give an even more detailed entries then they requested...
last line reads "Meds not issued yet, file BF to WVR"
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now just recently my parents went back home and again my wife was with them for the duration of the month long trip.... have photos from this trip...
so... what should i do... please advise, should i write/email/fax (what's the best way of now reaching them) them and explain what the situation is again in even more spoon fed detail and try to provide with the lacking information surrounding the scenario....
or should i redo the rukhsati/valima ceremony to appease them... our marriage is genuine so we got no issues there...
or what else should i do that will be more appropriate.... add doc's i sent to them in may 2013, they left notes in oct 2013... its been about 6-7 months since, and since then i have only gotten just the pics back from our add doc's that we sent with no explanation or further request of any kind...
or should i go to my mp's office and try to have them sort this out... if they are nice enough...
please advise, thank you