Needing to vent - It upsets me when older people tell me to enjoy the single life that I'm living without my husband here, until my husband joins me. To them its like, aaj nahi to kal, eik na eik din saath phir hoge na to abhi ko enjoy karo. Its sooo hard. Where ever I look, or do, I think of him. Oh, if he was here, he'd enjoy this or like that or try to do this etc. What drives me even more mad is when people treat me as if I'm not married at all, just because he's not physically present, somehow that makes me "not married". Conversation leads to, oh wait til your married then you'll know how hard life gets and have children blah blah...then you'll know. Then I have correct them that yes I did get married and I have been with him but for some reason that still doesn't count as living a "married life". Its hard enough having people ask me constantly and every time I see them, "us ka irada hai ane ka ya nahi", or "wo arra hai ya nahi" ya "tum ne apply kiya bhi hai ya nahi apne shauhar k liye" but to have someone tell me I'm not "technically married" because he's not here, pushes me over the edge. :'(
I pray CHC-Isb start getting their acts together and start processing us faster so that we can be with our spouses once again and forget about this nightmare.