CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[I-ask-u-why]

its not just u sis sometimes i spend whole night thinking about this .. n its effecting my health ........ again i think why M doing this :'(

CHC does make us feel like " Mera dard naghma-e-bey sada .... Meri Zaat zara-e-beynishaan" :-X

 

[sweetgrl896]

CHC does make us feel like " Mera dard naghma-e-bey sada .... Meri Zaat zara-e-beynishaan" :-X

aesum i wish jb tk hamy visa ni milta raat na hoo..... Sabsy zayada muskil time raat guzarna hota hy jab sab log so rahy hoty han r hum jesy ...... Forum per bhatakty han....

 

[I-ask-u-why]

aesum i wish jb tk hamy visa ni milta raat na hoo..... Sabsy zayada muskil time raat guzarna hota hy jab sab log so rahy hoty han r hum jesy ...... Forum per bhatakty han....

That reminds me of the following song

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtlS4T48m5k&feature=fvst

 

[sweetgrl896]

That reminds me of the following song

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtlS4T48m5k&feature=fvst

youtube is baned in pakistan.... ??? Can u tell me some lyrics???... Wesy jo bhi ho abto sad song bhi thak gy han..... Wesy ek bat btayn koi to esa bnda hoga jo chc walon ki tangen tor dy ...?

 

[I-ask-u-why]

youtube is baned in pakistan.... ??? Can u tell me some lyrics???... Wesy jo bhi ho abto sad song bhi thak gy han..... Wesy ek bat btayn koi to esa bnda hoga jo chc walon ki tangen tor dy ...?

My apologies, did not realize the ban, it was the old legend .......... aey dil e nadan, hum bhatakey hain kyon bhatakey hain ....... I shall share the choice of lyrics once the YouTube becomes Yours again which i guess will be soon as per the news

CHC freaks are beyond human reach ever since they befriended themselves with aliens... by the way, this processing time is part of Canadian Foreign Affairs policy towards Pakistan, has nothing to do with the staff at Embassy, they are only the messenger and as we say" we dont shoot the messenger" and the message is "Dont try to bring more Pakistanies and Afghans into our country" and message is loud and clear.

Try not to leave your hands idle since the "Devil finds some mischief still for idle hands to do"

 

[Awaiting 2012]

Hey Awaiting any news from ur side ??i was thinking about u .. long time no see
u r one of Nov/Dec 2010
few r still waiting for good news from 2010
why is it taking so long ??? any idea ? u had ur remedical in May 2012

hey goppy dear!!!! no, no news yett....... been almost 7 months since re medical, lagta hay mera case dust kha raha hay chc dump room mein..... I emailed them even a month back, no reply..... :'( what about you?? heard anything yet? any updates???....... ???

 

[Awaiting 2012]

its not just u sis sometimes i spend whole night thinking about this .. n its effecting my health ........ again i think why M doing this :'(

I think the time before getting the good news is the TOUGHEST, god is testing our wills, trust me once we're through this, and we are going to sooon, we will be rewarded in soo many wayss.....so no worries and be happy... atleast thsi forum and you people give me hope! ;D

 

[sweetgrl896]

My apologies, did not realize the ban, it was the old legend .......... aey dil e nadan, hum bhatakey hain kyon bhatakey hain ....... I shall share the choice of lyrics once the YouTube becomes Yours again which i guess will be soon as per the news

CHC freaks are beyond human reach ever since they befriended themselves with aliens... by the way, this processing time is part of Canadian Foreign Affairs policy towards Pakistan, has nothing to do with the staff at Embassy, they are only the messenger and as we say" we dont shoot the messenger" and the message is "Dont try to bring more Pakistanies and Afghans into our country" and message is loud and clear.

Try not to leave your hands idle since the "Devil finds some mischief still for idle hands to do"

yeah the main reason behind this long waiting game is we r pakistani..... Zardari's nation......

 

[canadianbear]

hey goppy dear!!!! no, no news yett....... been almost 7 months since re medical, lagta hay mera case dust kha raha hay chc dump room mein..... I emailed them even a month back, no reply..... :'( what about you?? heard anything yet? any updates???....... ???

Hey you two!

I am still here too... there are few people i have met who applied later in 2011 and their wives are about to arrive. and then everyone bugs my wife in Pak... oooh dear... so and so is leaving, why hasn't yours happened yet... blah blah

Why the F did the govt had to change systems and then on top of that...not honor First Come policy. If you confront, they will deny it.

I just want this nightmare to end, which started out as a dream.

Hang in there goppy and awaiting. Lets keep each other updated as we are in similar / same year timeline.

Cheers,

CB

 

[R.Mujgani]

Hey you two!

I am still here too... there are few people i have met who applied later in 2011 and their wives are about to arrive. and then everyone bugs my wife in Pak... oooh dear... so and so is leaving, why hasn't yours happened yet... blah blah

Why the F did the govt had to change systems and then on top of that...not honor First Come policy. If you confront, they will deny it.

I just want this nightmare to end, which started out as a dream.

Hang in there goppy and awaiting. Lets keep each other updated as we are in similar timeline.

Cheers,

CB

same here my husbands relatives/friends always bug him saying ohh so n so left already y are u still here?
Does ur wife really love you? is she cheating on you? Is she playing you? or poor u everyone is leaving nad ur still here blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

I also want this nightmare to finish so that ma husband insha'allah comes n i get to live my life and know what marriage life is. This wait is taking every precious moments away from us, we miss a lots of stuff and it wont be the same wen we do it later on in life.

May Allah swt Shower His Blessings on us ameen.

 

[sweetgrl896]

same here my husbands relatives/friends always bug him saying ohh so n so left already y are u still here?
Does ur wife really love you? is she cheating on you? Is she playing you? or poor u everyone is leaving nad ur still here blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

I also want this nightmare to finish so that ma husband insha'allah comes n i get to live my life and know what marriage life is. This wait is taking every precious moments away from us, we miss a lots of stuff and it wont be the same wen we do it later on in life.

May Allah swt Shower His Blessings on us ameen.

same here friendx....
Everyone think they have right to criticize me now.... They ask stupid qstnx is ur hubby loves u? Etc.... Im so tired of this process need a place where no one can interfere in my life.

 

[canadianbear]

same here my husbands relatives/friends always bug him saying ohh so n so left already y are u still here?
Does ur wife really love you? is she cheating on you? Is she playing you? or poor u everyone is leaving nad ur still here blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

I also want this nightmare to finish so that ma husband insha'allah comes n i get to live my life and know what marriage life is. This wait is taking every precious moments away from us, we miss a lots of stuff and it wont be the same wen we do it later on in life.

May Allah swt Shower His Blessings on us ameen.

Yea...my wife had horror stories being told to her at some point in the beginning. In the early part of your relationship, those stories can be dangerous and harmful but thankfully, 2 years in, we know each other enough not to fall trap to them. Now she just goes to gatherings if she really has too. Can't handle the brown/desi attitude anymore.

We are both really are fed up and hurts more than it used to see those that applied after us are packing to leave.

I just got back from vacation and its only been 6 days apart but feels like 6 months. Killer.

CB

 

[Awaiting 2012]

Hey you two!

I am still here too... there are few people i have met who applied later in 2011 and their wives are about to arrive. and then everyone bugs my wife in Pak... oooh dear... so and so is leaving, why hasn't yours happened yet... blah blah

Why the F did the govt had to change systems and then on top of that...not honor First Come policy. If you confront, they will deny it.

I just want this nightmare to end, which started out as a dream.

Hang in there goppy and awaiting. Lets keep each other updated as we are in similar / same year timeline.

Cheers,

CB

Hey CB! I have been following your case brother! I remember Danny who got done in 17 something months... he was a kind brother too... very helpful..... I'm visiting the forum after ages... reason being i have been sooo depressed as everyone from 2011 was getting their pprs..
I felt SO miserable! plus my relatives and their never ending taunts! in laws problems..etc etc..lol i second you on that one! Kam umar mein bohot kuch dikha diya chc ney! tobah! My husband hasn't been able to visit me since 2010 due to his job problems... first come first serve is bullshi*.... :'( but I have learnt to live with the fact that life aint fair.....so we gotta hold on to our nerves... lets keep each other updated and i will pray for us inshAllah this ordeal will be over soon! only we can understand the pain.....

 

[Awaiting 2012]

same here my husbands relatives/friends always bug him saying ohh so n so left already y are u still here?
Does ur wife really love you? is she cheating on you? Is she playing you? or poor u everyone is leaving nad ur still here blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

I also want this nightmare to finish so that ma husband insha'allah comes n i get to live my life and know what marriage life is. This wait is taking every precious moments away from us, we miss a lots of stuff and it wont be the same wen we do it later on in life.

May Allah swt Shower His Blessings on us ameen.

LOL! you are so right.... I see so many couples....friends/cousins/relatives living happily married...i dont even know what married life is yet lol...right now im as good as single.... these two years have taken a lot from us indeed....man its going to be so awkward later on...

 

[R.Mujgani]

Yea...my wife had horror stories being told to her at some point in the beginning. In the early part of your relationship, those stories can be dangerous and harmful but thankfully, 2 years in, we know each other enough not to fall trap to them. Now she just goes to gatherings if she really has too. Can't handle the brown/desi attitude anymore.

We are both really are fed up and hurts more than it used to see those that applied after us are packing to leave.

I just got back from vacation and its only been 6 days apart but feels like 6 months. Killer.

CB

same here, that is exactly what my husband and i were talking about today. People have gotten n still do get involved in our marriage, if we had listened to everyone we wouldnt have been together, but Thank Allah swt that both of us are insha'allah together and listened to our hearts and Have Allah swt helps us stay together and Live a long life together Ameen.

its not only Pakistanis, trust me all brown (afghan, pakistani, etcc) have problems and like to get involved in other peoples marriage sometimes they even have ur parents getting involved. But the people that put me through trouble are facing it with their own kids now. so Karma does really work.
My husband was gettin it from his relatives in Pakistan while i was getting it from here Canada from ma relatives.
I am younger compare to my older cousin who are still not yet married, n from jealousy my aunts and uncles would get involved make ma husband stand against me or have be get mad easily about my in laws. We had to go through the craziness but Alhamdlulliah, my husband and I are together with Allah swts help and Mercy.

Insha'allah this process is a test of patient and also love to see how much we stand together with our spouses. and after this we can stand together no matter wat with Allah swts help and Mercy.