Inshallah Allah will hear our prayers and these idiot people will start processing faster. Its not that they can't process faster, things used to be done in a matter of a few months but this has extended to years. Never in my mind did I think it would take long. In my happy naive mind I thought he'd be here in 8-9 months no time but how wrong I was. Anywho, I pray our hearts wishes come true and we're reunited with out loved ones. I know k one day we will be, in our hearts we think, oh it'll be this day because that's what the site says, then it gets extended, then we reset our heart, dil ko samja na k patience hai tum me baki, then again the same happens. Its frustrating and then you eventually go bonkers. I remember a cousin of mine got married some 7 years ago, his wife's sponsorship took more than 3 months and he went nuts and made his family go back with him again so he can be with his wife (well I'm far patient than that). I've been waiting to be with hubby for 21 months, I applied late so the process has only been going for 13 months. *sigh*