whywait:( said:
WOW, U TOOK MY MESSAGE TO THE HEART 
MY MESSAGE AND WORDS WERE TO THOSE OF THE 10%!
UR RESPONSE SHOWS WHAT!! JUST KEEP THINKING ABOUT IT..................
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90% OF AFGHANS AND PAKISTANIS R IN TATA LAND AND NOT WORKING IN THEIR HOME LAND AND DREAMING OF AN EASY LIFE HERE!
i think my English is so weak,,, that's what you think then you are right ....so i wrote your line up and trying to make my self understandable,,,
i know you are right some how but not that much you are talking about try to mention those people who are thinking this way to easy money with easy job,,
i met many people in this time most of them already know that there will be hard time some prepared some not and there is hardly few people who think like you said
but i think it is mistake by both families they should not tell him or her what we have in Canada and some try to show off there money so the guy and the girl made there fantasies to going in some wonder land .
Before marriage this is responsibility to both family try to make clear picture in girls and boys mind
Marriage mostly in Pakistan what they think...every thing will be fine after marriage which is not right and things goes worse and worse...this is my life experiences and research...i learn things in my life one of them when you go some where have get total information .. about economy, jobs, from odd to high jobs, roads , house rents, weather every day news crime rate and safety and much more then after my research I know what I have to do first and what is my goal... doesn’t matter how hard is this
i think in Pakistan you can do it very easy way internet make it like global village
so i think when you going to marry you have 100% rights to let him know to guy and girl to do some thing before coming and how hard is life there don’t give him a shock when he or she reach there
I know mostly people don’t know before they go and then they fight each other and tell that you where saying this and that is Pakistan I thought my work is just reach to Canada and then every thing is already settled for me
I know it which is total wrong thinking ...but my point is clap is always from both hands,,,
i hope you understand where i am standing,,,,90% or in 10%
sorry about my before post ...but for you try to tell them what to do from you experience ... not point out them and i am sure if you keep post about your experience i know there will be lots of people will learn that what to do before go there
Thanks and once again sorry,,,,
Good day and stay with blessing
Prays are always with you
RAY
