CHC, Islamabad Spouse Sponsorship Timeline 2009 -2010

[Khilafah5]

Passport Waiting List
Member Result Status Issued
Great Person-----medical received since Sept 2011-------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Laii ------------------medical received since Dec-2011------------ waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Fj423---------------medical received since Decr 2011-------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
hamidadel------------medical received since Dec 2011--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Lover---------------medical received since Jan 2012--------------- PPR------------June 8,2012
Imtihaan-----------medical received since March 2012----------PPR------------June 19,2012
Lonly---------------medical received since March 2012-----------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Hacib23------------medical received since March 2012----------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Miserable---------medical received since March 2012-----------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Samakhan---------medical received since April 2012------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Usrain--------------medical received since April 2012-------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Samar Jawad-----medical received since April 2012-------------PPR------------June 16,2012
K.A------------------medical received since April 2012------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Rougearmor----- medical received sinve April 2012------------ waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Sehrish-------------medical received since April 2012-------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Saakhi--------------medical received since April 2012-------------waiting for PPR------------Issued soon
Warda--------------medical received since May 2012-------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Hunsani1-----------medical received since May 2012-------------PPR-----------June 19,2012
Awaiting2012----medical received since May 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
T.a-------------------medical received since May 2012-------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Emanzaib-----------medical received since June 2012---------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
DSF------------------medical received since June 2012-------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Anzee---------------medical received since June 2012-------------waiting for PPR-----------Issued soon
Blue_angel--------medical received since June 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Missingmyjaan—-medical received since June 2012------------- PPR-----------june 20, 2012
Mah1906-----------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Manor---------------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Ash14u--------------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Khilafah5------------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Allah madat---------medical received since July 2012-------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Hot lier-------------- medical received since July 2012-------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
ZZAADD-------------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
SI----------------------medical received since July 2012--------------PPR------------June 19, 2011
Sabii------------------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Yago------------------medical received since july 2012----------------PPR-------------June 19,2012

 

[sabii]

Remedical k kitney arsey k baad PPR ata hai?

 

[Khilafah5]

Remedical k kitney arsey k baad PPR ata hai?

all depends on VO sis

 

[R.Mujgani]

Hey everyone great news for those who remember Khan82 sister
She has a handsome masha'allah baby boy
jus wanted to share this joy from her side wit everyone here

 

[Shanzay]

Based on my personal experience and observation, Sab say bahtar life partner woo hay joo ya to ap k realtives may say hoo ya jannay walay jinhain ap 10-15 saal say jantay hoon. Jannay waloon may shadi karnay ka faida ap larki or us kay ghar waloon koo pahlay say jantay hain.

Buhar sari pareeshanion say bach jata hay admi agar loog dakhay bhalay hoon too....Dont think only about the life partner think that you are going to attach a family....

Questions regarding considering a life partner......

What are the most important things to consider when choosing a life partner from back home??

I know, its off of the topic in this forum, but since you guys are sponsoring or being sponsored, it's the best place to know more about choosing a life partner than anywhere else

BTW I am sponorsing family members, but intend to take a step for my self tooo ....

 

[lonly widout hubby]

Based on my personal experience and observation, Sab say bahtar life partner woo hay joo ya to ap k realtives may say hoo ya jannay walay jinhain ap 10-15 saal say jantay hoon. Jannay waloon may shadi karnay ka faida ap larki or us kay ghar waloon koo pahlay say jantay hain.

Buhar sari pareeshanion say bach jata hay admi agar loog dakhay bhalay hoon too....Dont think only about the life partner think that you are going to attach a family....

ABSOLUTLY TRUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

ME N MOST OF d ppl n my fmily got married in family ... are mashallah see so happpy ..... only few who did outside ......... had sever problemss

even lead to divorce...............................

so its very importnt to know d family u r goin to marry dat goes for grl or boy both ................
half of d problem is solved before hand , cos family knows each other so well n respect each other ;D

 

[hogaishaadi]

ABSOLUTLY TRUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

ME N MOST OF d ppl n my fmily got married in family ... are mashallah see so happpy ..... only few who did outside ......... had sever problemss

even lead to divorce...............................

so its very importnt to know d family u r goin to marry dat goes for grl or boy both ................
half of d problem is solved before hand , cos family knows each other so well n respect each other ;D

unfortunately i have seen plenty of folks who have married within family and have had massive fights/headaches/sourness/divorces...

your partner truly is a googly, you can make a good guess that how the person will be... but you never know how they will turn out to be...

I think there is no perfect/guaranteed way of finding a top notch partner... its all about luck, ur partner can turn out to be the devil or an angel... however what you can do to decrease the chances of them being evil or increase the chances of them being an angel is by...

1. Do not pick a partner on I WILL CHANGE HIM/HER, this fails massively... and a lot of desi ppl make this very mistake... you cannot change a person for who they are... for example and putting it very bluntly, you can dress up a donkey real nice, but it will remain a donkey... so think hard about their personality, attributes, attitude, traits... make sure they are on par with ur education, work, life style, habbits etc...

2. We all spend our lives 20+ years in a particular way... and somewhere in the back of our heads prefer it to be that way going forward... however, once married you have to realize, you will have to give up somethings, and you will have to adopt a few things, you can't stand out there like a stone and not accept any change, or fights/break ups will occur... the other person wants their space and activities or life style to be carried out a bit too...

3. Respect, Trust, and Honesty + Give a little bit of personal space despite being married, we desi folks are like leeches, and just cling on and want to know every damn bit of detail... take a chill pill, let them be themselves or by themselves for a bit once a while... ignore little stuff...

4. Talk to your partner and be open about things... communicate openly about how and where do you expect to be in your life etc... this helps out believe it or not... we folks dont do this at all... my wife for example at first was like what the hell are you on about... but then she got the idea, and it helped a bit...

5. Do not involve family members into your married life... yes have their blessings and thoughts here or there, but make your decisions with your spouse in mind first...

6. I think we assume (or family pressures/jokes/banters) that once we are married there has to be a baby... NO... just coz you are married it does not mean have a baby right away... discuss with your partner... wouldnt you want to go out for movies/vacation/work/education/etc etc before you go the baby route... dont have a baby for the sake of having a baby, be ready to raise them first... often a lot of marriages break coz couple wasnt really ready to raise a baby...

once you keep these things in mind... you could avoid lot of big headaches...

i told my wife, i am already very happy in my life as it is... and with you coming in to it, i dont want to make a soap opera out of it, i want to be happier... and vice versa... I THINK SHE GOT IT (here is hoping lol)

 

[impulsive]

Based on my personal experience and observation, Sab say bahtar life partner woo hay joo ya to ap k realtives may say hoo ya jannay walay jinhain ap 10-15 saal say jantay hoon. Jannay waloon may shadi karnay ka faida ap larki or us kay ghar waloon koo pahlay say jantay hain.
Buhar sari pareeshanion say bach jata hay admi agar loog dakhay bhalay hoon too....Dont think only about the life partner think that you are going to attach a family....

Its sure is a gr8 idea to get married in the relatives if it works but sometime it backfire as soon as there are problems and then the relatives get involve and no matter how bad the problems couple is having, relatives don't want that marriage to end and then husband and wife both suffer as they are told all sorts of relatives boycott and would not talk or deal with them at all and I have seen some of those problem with some friends and they say never ever get married in your relatives. and there are some, they don't find anyone in the relatives so they have to explore. Once you are in Pakistan there is less trouble because of poor country and mostly women don't receive any help from Gov't & there is pressure from your relatives not to even think of divorce but once same people live in those rich countries where you can make one phone call to 911 and the police would be at your door in a flash and if there is any abuse/wife beating then they would take away the husband and he is told not to even come close to the house until the judge decides or in some cases if woman wants to move out of husbands place then she is taken to the women shelter and the Gov't would help her to live there until she gets the job and establish herself to stay on her own etc. That is one of the reason there are more divorces in these countries. Social welfair department (Gov't) and many other institutions are there for help. https://www.google.com/search?source=ig&hl=en&rlz=&=&q=women+help&oq=women+help&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&gs_l=igoogle.3...307.2633.0.3109.6.2.0.0.0.0.192.342.0j2.2.0...0.0.2r-nmrZfxU0#hl=en&sclient=psy-ab&q=women+help+in+canada&oq=women+help+in+canada&aq=f&aqi=g-K1&aql=&gs_l=serp.3..0i30.39296.43289.0.46567.10.6.0.4.4.0.272.1264.0j3j3.6.0...0.0.kxcq-g1XUBs&pbx=1&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.r_qf.,cf.osb&fp=4047a5f6cd482f68&biw=1280&bih=604

Just wanted to share my perception of thoughts and experience from people around me as living in Canada.

https://www.google.com/search?source=ig&hl=en&rlz=&=&q=women+help&oq=women+help&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&gs_l=igoogle.3...307.2633.0.3109.6.2.0.0.0.0.192.342.0j2.2.0...0.0.2r-nmrZfxU0#hl=en&gs_nf=1&tok=bHJFDrnVZjyMlgqaXZ53Ng&pq=government%20help%204%20women%20in%20canada&cp=0&gs_id=53&xhr=t&q=help+4+abused+women+in+canada&pf=p&sclient=psy-ab&oq=help+4+abused+women+in+canada&aq=f&aqi=&aql=&gs_l=&pbx=1&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.r_qf.,cf.osb&fp=4047a5f6cd482f68&biw=1280&bih=604&bs=1


Also check this out: Good news for women!!!!!!!!!!

http://www.iol.co.za/dailynews/opinion/canada-best-g20-country-to-be-a-woman-india-worst-1.1319499

 

[misrable]

Remedical k kitney arsey k baad PPR ata hai?

no one knows..........its a surprise

 

[Cool_Heaqded]

There are so many theories about marriage; but I will put it in the light of Holy Quraan and Hadith.

1. We have created men and women and made them a `libaas`clothes for each other. Means each spouse would know the weaknesses of the other and they must not bring it in open.

2. You marry someone who is pious `mohsenaat`.

3. At the time of marriage disclose everything without asking; did not ask did not tell is forbidden. This is the same Aaayah which are recited when nikaah is performed.

Hadith:

4. Marry someone who is equal to you. (Marrying too high in status or too low in status can cause problems).

5. Marrying cousins is not preferred.

My Tips:
i. Never fight at night time.. go to bed without any pressure..
ii. Do not criticize your partner, however talk about something you did not like without offending him/her.
iii. Do not hold bad stuff/feelings in the heart, speak-out.. as in the end it may explode big time.
iv. Behave as friends.
v. and raise kids ASAP, kids help couples stay together.

If nothing works and the damage is beyond repair walk away sooner than later. Settle thing amicably; lawyers will rip u apart.

 

[rackeya]

Passport Waiting List
Member Result Status Issued
Great Person-----medical received since Sept 2011-------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Laii ------------------medical received since Dec-2011------------ waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Fj423---------------medical received since Decr 2011-------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
hamidadel------------medical received since Dec 2011--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Lover---------------medical received since Jan 2012--------------- PPR------------June 8,2012
Imtihaan-----------medical received since March 2012----------PPR------------June 19,2012
Lonly---------------medical received since March 2012-----------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Hacib23------------medical received since March 2012----------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Miserable---------medical received since March 2012-----------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Samakhan---------medical received since April 2012------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Usrain--------------medical received since April 2012-------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Samar Jawad-----medical received since April 2012-------------PPR------------June 16,2012
K.A------------------medical received since April 2012------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Rougearmor----- medical received sinve April 2012------------ waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Sehrish-------------medical received since April 2012-------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Saakhi--------------medical received since April 2012-------------waiting for PPR------------Issued soon
Warda--------------medical received since May 2012-------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Hunsani1-----------medical received since May 2012-------------PPR-----------June 19,2012
Awaiting2012----medical received since May 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
T.a-------------------medical received since May 2012-------------waiting for PPR------------issued soon
Emanzaib-----------medical received since June 2012---------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
DSF------------------medical received since June 2012-------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Anzee---------------medical received since June 2012-------------waiting for PPR-----------Issued soon
Blue_angel--------medical received since June 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Missingmyjaan—-medical received since June 2012------------- PPR-----------june 20, 2012
Mah1906-----------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Manor---------------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Ash14u--------------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Khilafah5------------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Allah madat---------medical received since July 2012-------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Hot lier-------------- medical received since July 2012-------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
ZZAADD-------------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
SI----------------------medical received since July 2012--------------PPR------------June 19, 2011
Sabii------------------medical received since July 2012--------------waiting for PPR-----------issued soon
Yago------------------medical received since july 2012----------------PPR-------------June 19,2012

add me ppr june 04 2012 and medical

 

[lonly widout hubby]

today is a blessed day ............friday

may allah shower his blessingggggggggggggggg

and send lots of ppr n visa

ammeennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn ;D ;D

 

[hamidadel]

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Amin

 

[hamidadel]

2010 Forum people aganist CHC I, staffs.

 

[hunsani1]

unfortunately i have seen plenty of folks who have married within family and have had massive fights/headaches/sourness/divorces...

your partner truly is a googly, you can make a good guess that how the person will be... but you never know how they will turn out to be...

I think there is no perfect/guaranteed way of finding a top notch partner... its all about luck, ur partner can turn out to be the devil or an angel... however what you can do to decrease the chances of them being evil or increase the chances of them being an angel is by...

1. Do not pick a partner on I WILL CHANGE HIM/HER, this fails massively... and a lot of desi ppl make this
very mistake... you cannot change a person for who they are... for example and putting it very bluntly, you can dress up a donkey real nice, but it will remain a donkey... so think hard about their personality,
attributes, attitude, traits... make sure they are on par with ur education, work, life style, habbits etc...

2. We all spend our lives 20+ years in a particular way... and somewhere in the back of our heads prefer it
to be that way going forward... however, once married you have to realize, you will have to give up
somethings, and you will have to adopt a few things, you can't stand out there like a stone and not accept any change, or fights/break ups will occur... the other person wants their space and activities or life style to be carried out a bit too...

3. Respect, Trust, and Honesty + Give a little bit of personal space despite being married, we desi folks are like leeches, and just cling on and want to know every damn bit of detail... take a chill pill, let them be themselves or by themselves for a bit once a while... ignore little stuff...

4. Talk to your partner and be open about things... communicate openly about how and where do you expect to be in your life etc... this helps out believe it or not... we folks dont do this at all... my wife for example at first was like what the hell are you on about... but then she got the idea, and it helped a bit...

5. Do not involve family members into your married life... yes have their blessings and thoughts here or there, but make your decisions with your spouse in mind first...

6. I think we assume (or family pressures/jokes/banters) that once we are married there has to be a baby... NO... just coz you are married it does not mean have a baby right away... discuss with your partner... wouldnt you want to go out for movies/vacation/work/education/etc etc before you go the baby route... dont have a baby for the sake of having a baby, be ready to raise them first... often a lot of marriages break coz couple wasnt really ready to raise a baby...

once you keep these things in mind... you could avoid lot of big headaches...

i told my wife, i am already very happy in my life as it is... and with you coming in to it, i dont want to make a soap opera out of it, i want to be happier... and vice versa... I THINK SHE GOT IT (here is hoping lol)

I agree wid u bro on all the points except for the last Point of having a baby...sorry to say bro whoever has to come he/she has to come bt if u start planing tht we shud get settled first n then we" ll decide of having a baby then bro Allah has more planning then u..n u cannot create hurdles in Allah's planning..n to tell u the truth wen u were born ur father never planned anything n wen u came u brought ur own Rizk..coz in Quran it's clearly written tht baby comes with his own food so it has nothing to do with ur settlement of raising him..I've seen ppl who first planned to get settled n then wen they thgt they r ready to raise a child then Allah didn't wanted it tht way..n then the only thng was praying hard for babies..just ask those ppl who don't have babies n ull knw hw it feels.n I also agree with COOL HEADED as he said raise babies ASAP it makes the couple stay together..I hope u understood wat I tried to explain..
I guess other forum members will also agree to it..
N matches are made in heaven so there's no point of finding a perfect match in Canada or pakistan..if ur match is in Canada ull find it n if it's in Pakistan then no matter hw hard u try finding there ull end up in Pakistan.so it's all planned n written in ur destiny..to believe this uve to have full faith in Allah n thts wt we all lack..Our EMAN is nt upto the standard..
Allah bless u bro.. N all prayers for ur happy life..