eman sis missing my jaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;Demanzaib said:I know!! isn't that crazy?? the package did a whole lot of traveling
eman sis missing my jaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;Demanzaib said:I know!! isn't that crazy?? the package did a whole lot of traveling
Next step is ppr ..she will get her ppr soon bro InshAllah ..canadianbear said:Update from my end. My wife just texted me she got a letter today. We were so excited that it would be PPR, considering we got Re-Medical last time (june 6th).
Turns out they want Police Certificate. I have heard request for second cert. mainly in male cases but this is a wife case.
Anyways, I guess we will send the police cert in the meantime. Medical is June 27th so lets see.
Congrats to others on PPR and Medical requests
Cheers,
goppy1 said:aj sab itny chup chup kyon hn ...
pakistan mn to bhut germi hy Canada waly be chup hn
Tomorrow, inshallah.. 8)lonly widout hubby said:no news today
inshaalllahhhhhhhhhhhh tomoroooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
;D ;D ;D
tofan-ram said:Questions regarding considering a life partner......
What are the most important things to consider when choosing a life partner from back home??
I know, its off of the topic in this forum, but since you guys are sponsoring or being sponsored, it's the best place to know more about choosing a life partner than anywhere else
BTW I am sponorsing family members, but intend to take a step for my self tooo ....
Thanks for the input....getting these ideas will help alot...good luck with you sponsorshipemanzaib said:As far as choosing a partner is concerned - I think essentially the same citeria applies as choosing a life partner any where - and really it is based on personal preference - depending on your nature and lifestyle. I guess generically speaking a loving, trustworthy, supporting and faithfulness are all important characteristics. Also based on who is sponsering who - the dynamic is very different. If a husband is sponsering his wife - in my opinion the transition is easier than a wife sponsering her husband. With economy doing what it is - it may be difficult to become settled -but as per our belief daana paani Allah miya ka karna hai but still us humans still do think practically. However, the point is you have to be mentally prepared to work hard and get yourself established. Whereas many women in our culture are housewives so that aspect of the move isn't as strenuous.
However, I would like to comment on the immigration process. From my experience I would say this process is INTENSE to say the least. It requires a lot of patience and cooperation between the both spouses. So before you jump in make sure you understand that it does take time and also your spouse is well aware of the lengthy process.
I will be very honest and this is just mu opinion so please take it with a grain of salt. I am very very happy with my wife, she is a wonderful person will all the things I wanted in a wife… But if I knew how traitorous this immigration process was going to be; I probably would have opted out. I love her now because I am married to her, but honestly I wouldn’t wish this upon anyone. It’s extremely difficult being away, you start to get into arguments which are only created by the distance, a little time away is good but not knowing anything is just too painful for both sides, people will say stay busy or get involved in other things for time being etc… the fact is you got married to be married to be with that person, not to get busy with other things. In my opinion if you have a chance to get married here, I would really consider it. this waiting is too hard and starts to affect your relationship before you even live together… My 2 cents…tofan-ram said:Thanks for the input....getting these ideas will help alot...good luck with you sponsorship
let me be honest with you, marry someone here. sponsoring a spouse, in my opinion, is the most difficult thing ever.tofan-ram said:Thanks for the input....getting these ideas will help alot...good luck with you sponsorship
yes, exactly. you read my mind.heybuddy said:I will be very honest and this is just mu opinion so please take it with a grain of salt. I am very very happy with my wife, she is a wonderful person will all the things I wanted in a wife... But if I knew how traitorous this immigration process was going to be; I probably would have opted out. I love her now because I am married to her, but honestly I wouldn't wish this upon anyone. It's extremely difficult being away, you start to get into arguments which are only created by the distance, a little time away is good but not knowing anything is just too painful for both sides, people will say stay busy or get involved in other things for time being etc... the fact is you got married to be married to be with that person, not to get busy with other things. In my opinion if you have a chance to get married here, I would really consider it. this waiting is too hard and starts to affect your relationship before you even live together... My 2 cents...
According to my limited knowledge: I would say all you need to see is just two things in the person you want to marry, One is that if you like the look of the person so you never have to regret it later by thinking that you had never seen the person before marriage and if you would have seen the person you probably would have not married him or her.(Islam allows that you can see other before marriage)tofan-ram said:Questions regarding considering a life partner......
What are the most important things to consider when choosing a life partner from back home??
I know, its off of the topic in this forum, but since you guys are sponsoring or being sponsored, it's the best place to know more about choosing a life partner than anywhere else
BTW I am sponorsing family members, but intend to take a step for my self tooo ....
missingmyjaan said:let me be honest with you, marry someone here. sponsoring a spouse, in my opinion, is the most difficult thing ever.
i don't regret anything, i love my husband, but honestly i never thought it would take this long and that we would go through such an emotional ride.
if you have patience then go for it, and you have to make sure that your spouse and your in-laws are aware of the processing times so you don't run into conflicts later.
to answer your general question of what to look for in a spouse, i would say that look for someone who you feel comfortable with, someone who shares your beliefs and views about life. look for someone who has inner beauty, like a beautiful character, manners, and respect. you will spend the rest of your life with this person, outer beauty is important, but it doesn't last as you will both grow old, but inner beauty will last a lifetime. last but not least, don't be too picky, if you are so picky then you will never be satisfied with anyone, and you will grow old just searching. remember everyone has strengths and weaknesses, including yourself.
I will just leave you with the words of Prophet Muhammad (SAW), if you follow this, then no doubt, you made a good decision.
The Prophet, sallallahu alayhe wa sallam, said, "A woman is normally sought as a wife for her wealth, her beauty, her nobility, or her deen (religiousness), so choose a religious woman and you will prosper." (Muslim)