Melisaa said:
Hi,
You should be fine. CIC understands that every relationship is unique and different. You don't have to have phone bills or Skype calls in order to qualify as a couple. Since you have many photos of your ceremony, honeymoon, trips, etc... I don't think there would be any concern for CIC. Furthermore, CIC will almost never refuse you without an interview, unless if there is a really serious issue that raises so many questions for them such as fraud, misrepresentation, etc... If they have any concern regarding your relationship they will surely either book you for an interview or somehow ask for an explaination letter or request more docs.
Never send anything to them without them asking for it. They don't like it. Unless if you for instance made a mistake when filling the forms, eg: wrong dates, mis spelled a name, and so on...
Overall I think you will have a normal process. Since your husband is Iranian and you are not, and considering the fact that getting married under Sharia law in Iran, and being a foreigner has its many restrictations, CIC is totally understanding of why you chose to marry elsewhere. My husband and I also got married in Turkey, we are both Iranian, and we got married abroad simply because we didn't want to go under a religious system of registering a marriage. As a couple it's solely your choice on how and where to get married. The only thing that matters to CIC is to make them believe you have a genuine and ongoing relationship.
Good luck.
I read these posts and thought I'd offer up my opinions, right or wrong.
I agree that chat logs don't "qualify" you as a couple however I DO think that any documentation or proof that you can provide to support the ongoing nature of your relationship will weigh in your favor. This seems to be one of the KEY focal points of their investigation. It's great that you've been able to support the legitimacy of your relationship with marriage certificates, travel docs, etc. but I do believe that it's important to demonstrate the ongoing nature of your relationship such as the day to day communication between the two of you where ever possible.
As for the advice to "Never send anything to them without them asking for it. They don't like it." I'm curious why you would say that as I've never read nor heard that anywhere. In fact the opposite is true from what I've seen in that several options are available to us to send additional documents, etc. to add to our file after the initial submission has been made. My opinion on this is just that....an opinion and not a particularly informed opinion either so take it with a grain of salt! It just seems reasonable that the officers would want to have as much information in front of them as possible in order to make a well informed decision. Personally, 'd send what ever additional documentation you have. I'd sooner take the risk of delaying the process a week or two (which is unlikely depending on what your dates are and at what stage of the waiting process you are at) rather than risking either an interview or refusal. MORE IS BETTER from my experience and opinion.
A little background on our situation:
She's Iranian born and living in Tehran
I'm Canadian born and living in Vancouver
We were introduced through her sister, my landlord
We communicated via internet and telephone for 9 months, met in Ankara for 2 weeks, married under Turkish law and also married under Iranian law through the Iranian embassy in Ankara, Traveled together to Tehran for 5 day, Honeymooned in Shiraz for 3 days.
We communicated several times daily before and after our wedding and in December of 2012 submitted our application. We submitted 11.5 kilos or 22 pounds of various support documentation with our application forms. Included were phone bills, chat logs, emails, photos, travel docs, an 11 page letter of explanation I wrote describing how we met, how our relationship grew, how our cultural and religious differences are dealt with,etc., etc. Our thinking was submit EVERYTHING WE HAVE TO SUPPORT OUR ONGOING RELATIONSHIP and let THEM decide what is or is not important.
We received our visa on July 10 this year. No interview was requested. No additional support documentation was requested. We were very grateful that we were spared these things as well as more waiting. As it happened we met again in Istanbul in April 2013 for 3 weeks but CIC was not aware of this.
I'm telling you all this because as you can see....it's probably a lot clearer to them that you guys had a prolonged relationship prior to your marriage unlike my wife and I. You can see both sides of the coin here now...we had a brief but well documented relationship before our wedding and documented contact via phone etc. several times a day since then where as you guys had the luxury of a prolonged courtship prior to getting married. As was mentioned earlier....no two relationships are the same so it's difficult to say if more documentation is necessary...I'd say err on the side of caution when ever possible. Of course I've left out a lot of details but you probably get the picture.
Best of luck to you both and if there's anything we can do to help you through this process or the waiting don't hesitate to ask!!