PC0827
Star Member
- May 23, 2013
- 4
- Category........
- Visa Office......
- New Delhi
- Job Offer........
- Pre-Assessed..
- App. Filed.......
- NOV 23 2012
- AOR Received.
- NOV 26 2012
- File Transfer...
- DEC 04 2012
- Med's Done....
- JULY 2016
- Interview........
- NOV 11 2013 (Refused) APPEAL WON 2016
- Passport Req..
- JAN 18 2017
- VISA ISSUED...
- Waiting....
- LANDED..........
- waiting.....
wait_so_long said:It's all a matter of perspective. Presumably the years of uncertainty are finally over, and it's just a waiting game now. Think of all the people on this forum that would love to be in your shoes right now. Release yourself from the anxiety and think of this as the last few months of freedom, and enjoy it as such. What are some of the "me" things that you've put off because you've been worrying about whether or not there will be an "us"? What are some of the things that you have to do to prepare for the eventual "us"? Without the burden of worry, the time will pass faster than you think.
For sure, i understand what you're saying. But for the last 4 years, I've been keeping myself busy. Going out, taking up hobbies, working out etc..
After 4 years of waiting, we both just want to start our life and our family. I'm not getting any younger. I'm going to be 33 this year and I stress abt how late I'm starting my family. Yes I know it's our choice to wait and we could have started earlier. But we both didn't want to miss out on the times that can be so precious. We want to be together for that.
I am very happy that I've won my appeal, extremely HAPPY. We were facing a misrepresentation on our file. Which was going to be a 5 year ban from sponsoring my husband. So I am very happy we are over that. But after you get your appeal, you think everything will move much faster and smoother.
It's just one wait to the other.
My MP actually called me today and now is telling me that I should get a request by the end of February, and that's what Ottawa is telling him. He said everything is fine with our file but it's still on the "finalizing" process.