Hi Olorvi,
Don't despair. I am the wife of Fyer. We have been reading this site for help, and it proved very helpful. I want you to know my husband must have had the same VO in Ghana. She had her mind made up already and made him feel so disrespected. She was rude and kept cutting him off and at one point said to my husband "are you arguing with me?" At which point he just sat there and didn't say anything. My husband received the same refusal letter BUT be warned!!!! I never ever until this day received a mail from her!!!! Thank god we used the letter he got to appeal instead of waiting as we would have missed the deadline which we believe is what she wanted. I complained to IAD about the VO and wrote a letter requesting we be allowed for ADR. We were granted ADR in Aug 2015. We won! My husband is now sitting beside me on my couch in his new home CANADA! Our ordeal is over but I want you to know there is hope. After the appeal our application was processed fully in Ottawa and he never had to go back to Ghana again.
Interview: Jan 2014
denied
Appeal in ADR Aug 2015
med and police requested Nov 2015
passport request Dec 2015
landed in Canada Feb 02/2015!!!!
So rough timeline but about a year after he was denied.
Be patient in the end it is so worth it
Good luck to everyone. We wish all families to be together soonest
I have already sent in my appeal, I received the refusal yesterday and I sent in the appeal papers through the courier an hour later. This certainly sounds like the same woman, she was very rude, never id herself and she said lots of stupid things about me and my husband. She cut him off and answered the questions for him and called him a liar when she allowed him to speak. I had more than enough proof to support our relationship.... 3000 pages of messages phone logs pictures letters from friends and family.
I am not giving up and have also asked for an ADR meeting and how she treated my husband.... I am totally disgusted with this