4evernlove said:
Hi Double Rainbow I hope by now you are feeling a bit better. This immigration process is really stressful and trying and certainly not for the faint of heart. The good thing is regardless of the wait you are closer to the end and definitely much further in the process than some (me definitely being one of them). Take solace that one day it will be behind you.
To put your wait into perspective and to let you feel better it's been 4 yrs now since I started this process and still am not seeing the end as I have to wait on an appeal date which may be another yr & a half from now. It is really frustrating and dream shattering so I try not to dwell on it too much. To me CIC really does not care much if any at all. Lost time in a relationship means nothing to them.
Cheer up and I thank God for your improvement with your health
Hi 4evernlove Thankyou for your kind words
Yes, this immigration process is stressful and not for the faint of heart as is being sick, countless surgeries in which I still need more of. I have frequent flyer miles at the hospital now so they tell me lol. Alot of lost income from working on and off and going through it all with immigration.It is what it is and I am slowly getting there with all of it
It is not how hard you fall, it is how you get back up. Hubby and I have been together 10 years 11 in October met in Oct 2003. Planned to marry in 2006 could not too sick due to cancer first time 2005 second time 2009, third time 2013 married 2012 refused visa January 2013 appeal Nov 2013 won in Vancouver. March 2014 Embassy requested re do of meds, Schedual A IMM 5669 and PCC Embassy have received all March 2014. Yes, I am lucky that I am getting closer to the end of this process. Our second wedding anniversary May 17th 2014. You must be located in the East to still be waiting for your appeal date. I am originally from the East. So sorry to read that you are still waiting on an appeal date
I hope and pray you get that date sooner than you are expecting. I pray for everyone here for a decent timeline resolve to be reunited with their loved ones once and for all.Yes, it surely is very frustrating. I have good days and bad days. Just grateful and thankful I am here to live my life with hopefully hubby at my side soon. I don't have any family here. I have good friends that help and give great support. The community has been very good to me where I live. My family is all over Canada. I get support on the phone with them and they visit when they can. I have a large dog and cat both rescues that have helped me to get through so much. I am so thankful and grateful to have them here with me.
I start a maintenance plan next month of once every 3 months with IV at the chemo clinic for 2 years but first with a CT scan to confirm all of the cancer is gone in which the cancer doc is convinced it is now. I just thought and hoped that perhaps hubby would be here for our 2nd wedding anniversary and had a quite low and down day. I don't have too many down days. I am a pretty positive person the majority of the time. I don't know when I can return to work and how long it will take before I feel well and strong enough. I hope it will not take too long to re coop as I need to get back to work. I sincerely wish you the very best.