Its really about how u guys manage time.
like we speak daily, even if we have just 2 mins. we do call. in fact video call. Just to have a glance of each other.
even we have nothing to talk about, we do call.
and keep asking each other, 'aur sunaho aur sunaho' (tell more)
we text good morning/ night text daily, send random kisses to each other at any time of the day. sometimes we share intimate stuff to each other, share fantasies just for fun
Tip:
Never talk about this immigration dinosaur. I mean talk a little bit, just to encourage each other that this time will pass. In a positive way.
I used to stress about it a lot. and always say to my hubby, they are not doing this or that. someone else got that, but we got this.
then i realized its just making it more difficult to handle.
this discussion wont help us. so we stopped. in fact i stopped
it doesn't mean that its bothering us no more. It does, with each passing time, It does hurt more. But we dont discuss it anymore.
so Girl and ur hubby!
take a deep breath u both
and work on it
May Allah help u both. ameen