I have attended many such ceremonies. I saw females are so shy! IN older times they even cover their whole faces, how they expect them to start laughing specially when her parents are watching, she would control her emotions and listen to the Priest. It is BIG change in life for both. Officer forgets it is a diff culture, she has a new father(-in-law), mother, sis and all that. However now times are changing. A 300 to 500 guest marriage is genuine? Come on guys, no body can afford 300 guests easily when you pay Rs1200/ head at the reception Hall ; total on this alone 1200x300= Rs 360000 and 500x1200= 600,000 alone on foods! Then comes golden jewelry, drinks , Honeymoon all kind of costs. Only very rich/famous parties may still afford that. And addup Airline tickets costs.