So to clarify, we expected the asylum hearing to still be about another year or so. We had set the date and planned everything well before we even received the notice that there was a hearing. Please don't make assumptions. We were together almost a year and was married. Also, no, there were no tax payers monies wasted as we have not used any legal aid. We did not have representation at the hearing because we both were not 100% what it was. I honestly thought it was just to check in and see how a person is doing, are they managing, are they working etc.
we have a strong application. we have a strong marriage and relationship. we are a middle aged couple who have made our mistakes in the past and have grown. I don't doubt that he will get his PR.
My inquiry here is basically seeking some guidance from everyday people about their personal experience if they have been in this situation. I have 3 kids who have grown to love this person, my husband. I've paid so much money in lawyers, I just want to know are the appeals worth it? is it better to wait in his home country? Just not sure if I should invest another $5000 for a federal appeal for stay of removal or is an outland application less stressful and successful?