* I am splitting out here separately my comment on 'arguably' not qualified for conjugal.
@scylla and others and myself genuinely and sincerely
counsel anyone applying under conjugal that there are basically two significant criteria to qualify as conjugal: a legal barrier to getting married and/or becoming common law (eg same sex marriage not recognized, divorce not legal, etc), AND an immigration barrier (i.e. one partner cannot get a visa to Canada in order to get married / become common law here.
[Side note: another requirement is that the conjugal relationship must be more than 12 months old and the partners to have met in person. As far as I'm aware these two requirements are absolute musts.]
As I said, this is the correct and best counsel to potential applicants. Applications DO get returned for not showing the 'immigration barrier.'
But as far as I can tell, this is NOT applied 100% consistently, and it is my
belief that the instructions in this regard are not as perfectly clear as they should be on this point. (IRCC internal manuals do seem to make it clear, but IRCC internal manuals are not 'law' but guidelines.) The relevant
law does not specify conjugal at all, really, except to say that this will be defined in the
regulations. And as far as I can tell the regulations do not go into this level of specificity, i.e. do not state that both of these tests must be met. (Happy to be corrected - regs are here -
https://laws-lois.justice.gc.ca/eng/regulations/SOR-2002-227/page-1.html?txthl=conjugal#s-1 )
At any rate, I repeat: anyone who is preparing to apply SHOULD try to meet both of these tests. But it's not so clear to me that the regs REQUIRE such an app to be refused if only one of them is met. (In contrast, I believe the law and regs
require an app to be refused if the conjugal partners have been together less than 12 months and have not met in person).
The existence of the (more detailed) manuals suggest such an app is LIKELY to be refused, but likely is not the same as certainty. The (very infrequent) evidence of periodic approvals for those not meeting the second test provides weak support to my thesis.
For the OP in this thread,
@Peta876 , it leaves some uncertainty, and means I cannot say which approach is better (and I don't think anyone can say for sure). "Better" also depends, since part of the recommendations made above is a guess on which process would be quicker (in this case, if refused, the OP and partner can just get married and re-apply, a refusal would be without prejudice to a new family class application after getting married).
[Side note: there are some here who believe the sponsor must ALSO demonstrate that they can't leave Canada to reside abroad for a year in order to become common law - my opinion is that this is utterly wrong and patently absurd. I won't address this here. It
might - conceivably - come up in cases where sponsor and partner factually DID live abroad, possibly together, and for periods long enough to have become common law (from IRCC perspective) and 'chose' not to. That's a different point, again, I won't address it here.]