The reason he is struggling with money because he is acting like a young boy now spending a lot of money. Actually he's still so young, just 26. I'm the same age as he is. But that woman is older than him a lot. In Arab countries, people don't usually get married with a woman whose age is older too much like this and a young man doesn't usually get married with a widow woman as well. But his sister said that he doesn't mind because he only wants to move to be in Canada only. At this point together that I have known him pretty well, I know that he only wants to get into the country and one day when he is ok about his financial problem, he would dump her though. He is not a man who will ask any woman for money. But he is not able to take care of himself as an adult for real. He can't make money enough money to pay for renting a house in Kuwait and he has been living with his sister since he moved there. Since the day he moved in, he hasn't come back to his country yet and he doesn't want to go back to Egypt due to its even harder for him to look for a job there. His friends don't know that he's married, because he got married for moving to another country especially, so he never tell anyone about this woman. In Muslim, men can have four wives but I didn't expect that he will have another person due to his promise to me. I'm not Muslim. His younger brother also knows about this Indonesian woman but he never says anything and they help each other to keep as a secret. But I could feel something strange until I found out and it seems like they are trying to hide more and run away to answer. I don't know what he said to that Indonesian woman because when I tried to ask her, she would disappear without answering anything. Before I and my husband stopped the life together with a big fight about this woman, he said something like his Kuwait visa for working has been cancelled to work there for another year. So I think that's the reason why he decided to be with this woman in Canada.
Will an Indonesia woman still have Canadian citizen after getting divorced
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The good news is, CIC knows these things about marrying older women, widows etc, and looks at them when processing applications.
If you can get the sister to put that in writing - text message or email - you can forward it to the VO. It's refered to as a "Poison Pen letter." They will judge why you want to bring this up and also the claim.
If you can get the sister to put that in writing - text message or email - you can forward it to the VO. It's refered to as a "Poison Pen letter." They will judge why you want to bring this up and also the claim.
We got divorced since that time already when I knew it. Here we can get married and get divorced in the same day. People here don't go to court for getting divorced. Maybe that woman doesn't even know things about him. Now, his sister stop talking with me already because I said that I would let people know for what I have been treated. I tried to find the woman but I can't. Can you believe that they got married but his sister has never met her and her family before. How come these people are ok with this. I think maybe its because of this woman was once married, so she doesn't mind this sort of thing about meeting the parents and learning each others culture first. Lots of strange things in this world
There is another thing with the sponsorship case and that is that they have to prove that it is a genuine marriage and not for the purpose of him getting PR. If they don't even know each other, immigration may realize that and may refuse their sponsorship. Her being 10 years older is not a problem in some cultures but if the processing visa office considers that to be a problem in their culture, that could also be a red flag.
Marriage fraud is pretty common in Canada. Immigration is trying to stop it. An older person may be flattered to have the attention of a young lover but in reality, the young lover may only be interested in the PR. I am not saying that is necessarily so in their case but who knows how immigration will see it.
You can not know what he has told the other woman. Maybe she doesn't even know he was married or maybe he has told her bad things about you.
Marriage fraud is pretty common in Canada. Immigration is trying to stop it. An older person may be flattered to have the attention of a young lover but in reality, the young lover may only be interested in the PR. I am not saying that is necessarily so in their case but who knows how immigration will see it.
You can not know what he has told the other woman. Maybe she doesn't even know he was married or maybe he has told her bad things about you.
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Yes there is an email that his sister said that he knows that she was married with a Canadian, not Indonesian and he doesn't mind that because he just want to live there ( Canada). If I forward it to VO, will VO show them that it's from me? They will tell them that there is a letter someone or an ex wife sent here or the VO just reject to issue the visa for him with no given reason to answer them. Normally, when someone can't get the visa, and people ask the embassy for the reason, the answers are usually " not given or no idea and no need to let you know". But actually, if its the claim that they will know its from me, is okay because it's the truth. his sister told me in the email to forget him she also said that he has many women as well.
But I don't know that woman's last name. I only have his real name. And I don't know exactly when he is going there. His sister only said that he's waiting for her invitation. If I send to VO, is it possible? I saw her fb using his last name and when I saw it I texted her and then I called my husband to ask and when he knew that I tried to ask her we had a big fight. And then both of their fb accounts disappeared when I took a look again.
Another question, when his sister said that he's going to Canada to be with her, I replied her that I will go with as a family sharing a husband together. So, my question is will VO think that I'm a harmful person saying this sort of thing? I won't be with but I said it just to make her stressed.
All of you are very nice answering me the question. I do really appreciate it.
Yes there is an email that his sister said that he knows that she was married with a Canadian, not Indonesian and he doesn't mind that because he just want to live there ( Canada). If I forward it to VO, will VO show them that it's from me? They will tell them that there is a letter someone or an ex wife sent here or the VO just reject to issue the visa for him with no given reason to answer them. Normally, when someone can't get the visa, and people ask the embassy for the reason, the answers are usually " not given or no idea and no need to let you know". But actually, if its the claim that they will know its from me, is okay because it's the truth. his sister told me in the email to forget him she also said that he has many women as well.
But I don't know that woman's last name. I only have his real name. And I don't know exactly when he is going there. His sister only said that he's waiting for her invitation. If I send to VO, is it possible? I saw her fb using his last name and when I saw it I texted her and then I called my husband to ask and when he knew that I tried to ask her we had a big fight. And then both of their fb accounts disappeared when I took a look again.
Another question, when his sister said that he's going to Canada to be with her, I replied her that I will go with as a family sharing a husband together. So, my question is will VO think that I'm a harmful person saying this sort of thing? I won't be with but I said it just to make her stressed.
All of you are very nice answering me the question. I do really appreciate it.
You are completely right. They are all what I think. I know he said something not true about me. Now, he blocked me from everything to contact him because I said I will check with the embassy. And he deleted all accounts he has. My husband is a very very good looking person. He is very attractive to all women. His body is like a model. He is very much handsome. He has got a sweet mouth. In Arabic countries, he can't show anything sexually to women in general because its not good and women here don't do or show anything like that. But I don't know how they knew each other and when. It's like he's excited to see a new woman a lot and something new. It's like a young boy that goes to a party and night club for the first time.Leon said:
He probably met her online. I still don't know what you want from this. You want to save this woman from your husband using her to get PR? You want to stop your husband from getting the visa somehow? And then what? Not getting the visa does not mean that he will come back to you. Yes, you could write a letter to the visa office but what will that achieve?